Here's a link to one statement by BJ, the relevant part bbm.
He is accused of killing someone in a parking spot dispute. Authorities say he was standing his ground.
“My man hears what’s going on, sees the guy yelling at me and I’m sitting in the car. My man is defending me and his children, so he pushes him down,” she told “Good Morning America.”
“The guy is on the ground and he pulls the gun out. . . . My dude steps back ’cause my dude is fearing for his life — all of us were,” she added.
I might add that not one witness including BJ said that MD threatened her.
Also notice the bystander in the video. He appears to be approaching perhaps to diffuse the situation. He appears to step away at the same time MM does. I think they realize simultaneously that MD is in the process of retrieving a firearm.
My dude steps back because he was fearing for his life. He wasn't fearing for his life when he pushed MD imo. He fears for his life when the guy on the ground pulls the gun. By then it's too late.