Do you have a link or source? I've been in Mosques and am not Muslim. Most Mosques I know of are welcoming, and the Muslims I know are eager to share their faith with others (like practitioners of most religions).
Exactly. Here in the U.S., they are evolving and many-many realize that there is much to be done on the issue of women and equality.
"Muslims are answerable to Allah in every sphere of their life, including their personal and public
relations. Human relations and gender relations in Islam are an amanah, a sacred trust that we
must guard and make manifest in our interpersonal interactions and institutional arrangements.
Islam demands that women and men be spiritual equals. It defines relations between women and
men as mutually complementary, and indeed, this mutuality is itself a sign of the Divine (Quran,
30:21). Both women and men have been entrusted with the charge of preserving the social order
and establishing a just and moral society. Both have been given the guidance to inspire goodness
in each other, and thereby, the goodness in all of society."
"The respect, compassion, and mutuality that Allah has placed between women and men must be
visible in not only our family life, but also in how Muslims conduct public transactions. Women
and men, girls and boys should have equal access to and must feel equally welcome to participate
in schools, the masjid, and other civic and cultural institutions."
"To their credit, some mosques in North America are being more inclusive. By implementing changes
such as inclusion of women in main prayer halls, in managerial positions, and on boards, these mosques
have created an impetus and mechanism for community transformation.
However, according to data from the national survey of mosques conducted by CAIR (discussed
below), the trend towards inclusion is not as widespread as the standard demanded by Islam.
There are confirmed reports that many mosques relegate women to small, dingy, secluded,
airless and segregated quarters with their children. Some mosques in Canada and the United
States actually prevent women from entering. There are also some Islamic centers and mosques
that discriminate against women by denying them the rights of membership, voting, or holding office."
http://www.ispu.org/pdfs/WomenAndMosquesBooklet.pdf
^^^ This reiterates, you cannot treat all those who are Muslims like they are terrorists or even potential terrorists, simply because they are Muslim.