FL - Sarah Lunde, 13, murdered, Ruskin, 9 April 2005

[OriginalJerseyGirl]

I just pleases me to think that he is so unhappy in jail that he would try to dig his way through a concrete wall.

I hope that he continues to act up before his trial. Maybe these will be factors that are considered when deciding what sentence to give.

 

[OriginalJerseyGirl]

Ex-Wife Reveals Life With Onstott - from TBO.com

... she's here to talk about David Lee Onstott, the man she married, the man she says charmed her, raped her, took her to church, then did something so awful she cries at the thought...

Then, she says, he started raping. If she tried to fight, he beat her, she says. She made up stories to cover for him. She told people at work that she tripped over the cat and slammed her eye on the doorknob.

She tried to leave. Once, she was on her knees packing Onstott's things, when he put a pistol to her head and said he was going to kill her, she recalls...

Since Sarah Lunde went missing, Wanda has been struggling with questions. Should she have killed Onstott that night? Should she have read the signs earlier and done more to protect her daughter? Should she have pressed police harder to find the man she says molested her daughter then disappeared? ...

 

[sharon25]

http://www.sptimes.com/2005/05/18/Hillsborough/Girl_s_life_was_full_.shtml


TAMPA - Long before she turned up murdered in an abandoned Ruskin fish pond, 13-year-old Sarah Lunde endured a childhood full of physical abuse, neglect and starvation, according to 1,300 pages of documents released Tuesday by the Florida Department of Children and Families.


poor poor child

 

[kk's mom]

http://www.sptimes.com/2005/05/18/Hillsborough/Girl_s_life_was_full_.shtml


TAMPA - Long before she turned up murdered in an abandoned Ruskin fish pond, 13-year-old Sarah Lunde endured a childhood full of physical abuse, neglect and starvation, according to 1,300 pages of documents released Tuesday by the Florida Department of Children and Families.


poor poor child

This is unbelievably sad to learn what all else this poor child went through at the hands of her abusive parents. What a piece of work her mother is. I hope not to offend anyone when I say this, but she is white trash. People like that don't deserve to be parents.

 

[sharon25]

This is unbelievably sad to learn what all else this poor child went through at the hands of her abusive parents. What a piece of work her mother is. I hope not to offend anyone when I say this, but she is white trash. People like that don't deserve to be parents.

how about we just say- she is scum- and hopefully now everyone will fully realize just how horrible of a "mother" she was.

 

[kk's mom]

how about we just say- she is scum- and hopefully now everyone will fully realize just how horrible of a "mother" she was.

Agreed.......I was willing to give her the benefit of the doubt at first when this all happened with Sarah. My feelings for her started to change when she had been arrested for the DUI after a night out of drinking two days before her daughter's funeral. I was told that this is how this woman grieved. Grieving my . This is a mother who never ever cared about her children, ever. All she ever cared about was herself.
It makes me f...ing furious. This is someone who I would actually like to see locked up and held partly responsible for her daughter's murder. :banghead:

 

[PrayersForMaura]

how about we just say- she is scum- and hopefully now everyone will fully realize just how horrible of a "mother" she was.

she doesn't even deserve the honor of being called "mother". Mother's love their children and don't do those things to them. She didn't care about anyone but herself. She is one evil being. Poor Sarah

 

[Sheromom]

I hope she DID love Sarah and has haunting memories for the rest of her life!

 

[CyberLaw]

I read the story today, that Sarah was abused, neglected, beaten from an early age.

The girl never had a chance in life, with a Mother(?) and Father(?)that abused and neglected her.

To think that her Mother had a boyfriend with a violent past, and she let this creep around her kids.....beyond my understanding.

Just like parents that "beat" their children and then call it disicpline.

Too many parents put their own needs before their children. They should not be parents........ever

 

[sharon25]

I read the story today, that Sarah was abused, neglected, beaten from an early age.

The girl never had a chance in life, with a Mother(?) and Father(?)that abused and neglected her.

To think that her Mother had a boyfriend with a violent past, and she let this creep around her kids.....beyond my understanding.

Just like parents that "beat" their children and then call it disicpline.

Too many parents put their own needs before their children. They should not be parents........ever

I've found that you have Two kinds of parents in this world,

There's the kind that once they learn that they are pregnant- their world shifts from them being the center of it, to their child being the center of it.

Then there's the kind where it stays the same. and the child is never the center of it.

Know what I mean???

 

[lady-eowyn]

Some people just shouldn't procreated....

 

[OriginalJerseyGirl]

http://www.sptimes.com/2005/05/18/Hillsborough/Girl_s_life_was_full_.shtml

This is atrocious:

In October 1999, a judge ordered Sarah, then 8 years old, removed from her mother's care and placed in a foster home. Listed in DCF records as the cause for the placement: "inadequate supervision, inadequate food, physical abuse and family violence."

This poor girl never knew the happiness and innocence of youth. Such a sad, short existence.

 

[OriginalJerseyGirl]

Agreed.......I was willing to give her the benefit of the doubt at first when this all happened with Sarah. My feelings for her started to change when she had been arrested for the DUI after a night out of drinking two days before her daughter's funeral. I was told that this is how this woman grieved.

I was still willing to give her the benefit of the doubt at that point, saying that it might be the only way that she could cope with the loss & the guilt. But this new information shows that I was incorrect. She did not care for her daughter the way that a child needs to be cared for. For the suffering that filled this child's life, I now also despise her mother.

 

[concernedperson]

I was still willing to give her the benefit of the doubt at that point, saying that it might be the only way that she could cope with the loss & the guilt. But this new information shows that I was incorrect. She did not care for her daughter the way that a child needs to be cared for. For the suffering that filled this child's life, I now also despise her mother.

The beatings are paramount as well as withholding food. This is breaking someone's will. Especially a child......when a child is so dependent on a parent. People can shout alcoholism to the rooftops but this is another personality disorder. It is plaguing our society...it is not only poor nor is it rich specifically...it is entitlement/boundaries that have to be addressed. Face it...we have evil people in our midst. And they use the rest of us.

And JerseyGirl, you know I am not directing anything to you just that I liked your post best to respond to. (Oops, there I go ending my sentence w/ a preposition again)! Lisafremont will be on me soon....LOL

 

[mysteriew]

she doesn't even deserve the honor of being called "mother". Mother's love their children and don't do those things to them. She didn't care about anyone but herself. She is one evil being. Poor Sarah

alleged mother (she hasn't proven to me that she is a mother- she sure hasn't acted like one)

 

[Marthatex]

I've found that you have Two kinds of parents in this world,

There's the kind that once they learn that they are pregnant- their world shifts from them being the center of it, to their child being the center of it.

Then there's the kind where it stays the same. and the child is never the center of it.

Know what I mean???

You're right on the mark. If only children could choose their parents.

 

[ShowerSinger]

This truly breaks my heart.
My family are all going to say a "special" prayer for all of the children of the world...red and yellow, black & white....

 

[CyberLaw]

When a person has a substance abuse problems, it takes priority over their child or children.

But I don't care, all I know is: Sarah never had a chance in life. Never.......

 

[Nchadwickaz]

:furious: Well, the recent news on this has seriously disturbed me all day -- I intentionally did not post on here until I calmed down.... I do commend you all on your restraint in your comments regarding her mother.... I am so sadden by children who suffer the consequences of their selfish, uncaring parents. At the same time, outraged by the continual examples of Kelly Mae -- I did on my own site, post my thoughts and advice to Kelly Mae and the sadness regarding Sarah Lunde -- so for those of you interest, I will post the link...

.... Like I said I am not trying to offend anyone on the forum -- but just a warning on my site I don't worry about the "offending" -- this stuff needs to be said, are children are dying and it has to stop! :razz:

Anyway -- going to try to go to sleep and hopefully tomorrow -- the Idaho kids will be found safe.

Much Respect,
Nikki
http://spaces.msn.com/members/nikkiandaaron/ - Unpolitically Correct Site

 

[Schmerty_Jones]

The beatings are paramount as well as withholding food. This is breaking someone's will. Especially a child......when a child is so dependent on a parent. People can shout alcoholism to the rooftops but this is another personality disorder. It is plaguing our society...it is not only poor nor is it rich specifically...it is entitlement/boundaries that have to be addressed. Face it...we have evil people in our midst. And they use the rest of us.

And JerseyGirl, you know I am not directing anything to you just that I liked your post best to respond to. (Oops, there I go ending my sentence w/ a preposition again)! Lisafremont will be on me soon....LOL

I feel a lot worse about This case!! Sarah was not loved or treasured by anyone but her church groups. I cannot understand not loving absolutely these perfect little angels that God blesses us with. The Lunsford girl was loved by many of her family. This poor little Lunde girl was never appreciated. I wish I could do more. I LOVE my family soooooo much. I have more to spare. Maybe God will guide me to do more than pray,but my prayers are very sincere! :blowkiss: