I did not see it as trashing the Mom at all. What I see is a horrible situation that many people are in-no money for adequate daycare.
We don't know who the normal sitter is. And if DT can't afford a sitter, then she probably does feel guilty about it. Because any parent would know that it's not a good situation. But if you don't have the money, what is one supposed to do?
It would be nice if this society that supposedly loves kids and wants to do the best for them, would actually do it.
All I see is less and less money going to help people.
Everyone is so worried about H1N1. I see that we actually do have an epidemic and it's called SO's. Almost 700,000 RSO's!!!! Are you kidding me!!! We better start taking care of our kids or no one will be safe anywhere at any time! (adults or children!) What I mean is to provide smaller class sizes, schools that aren't filled with mold and falling down, after school programs, parenting classes in high school , medical and dental care, proper nutrition, and probably lots of other things I'm missing. Dollars spent in the beginning save later on. Prison is a lot more expensive.