If no one else has brought this up, sadnpod, media were camped right outside the church and recording almost everyone who went in. I'm sure you were unaware, as you should have been. But they were across the street and had everyone in their zoom lenses.
I had it all recorded and have watched for him. They got us goin in, but none coming out that I know of. I was pushing ST's wheelchair. Does anyone remember seeing this on TV... coming out... not going in.. or a man in tshirt and tight jeans around the family vehicle?