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Well, you got the sport right. Wrong league though.
I can tell you didn't Google. Thanx for that. lol
I can tell you didn't Google. Thanx for that. lol
I wish I could open up on this one, but all I can really say is that this was a major low point in her life...I had already moved away, but mutual friends and DT herself filled me in on the details. That is all I have to go on, I wasn't there, but it was big enough for me to walk away. Put your mind to work, there are only so many things that are that serious. Sorry, that is the best I can do on this one.
and sorry I wouldn't have been out in the garage with y'all on thanksgiving night lol
Well, you got the sport right. Wrong league though.
I can tell you didn't Google. Thanx for that. lol
Kewpie doll-you are tough. You certainly calls em as you sees em!
Well -- DT certainly has a 5-star track record of men in and out of her, and her children's lives. She must be one very unlucky woman to keep on marrying *losers* and keep on finding *loser* boyfriends to live with.
While I'm no expert like you in the field of expertise here-- I do have something called *common sense*... and my common sense tells me she has issues with relationships-- period. A revolving door of men in and out of her children's lives is far from healthy... in my opinion. It is more than likely a huge task for LE to investigate all of her men, and their wives, and friends, and families to clear them.
Her drug abuse is a huge problem and I have no problem calling it as I see it. THAT is exactly why no one from the DT camp called 911-- and exactly why SP couldn't take the time go out with the children to look for Somer. SP was on drug clean up duty and getting everything out of that house-- in my opinion. How could they call 911 and have LE in that home with all the drugs.... ? They couldn't-- hence the wasted travel time DT took to drive home, and just knew something was wrong. I want to know why she lied about Somer not ever doing something like this?
I could continue on and on with DT's behavior and from where I am sitting neglect to her children. She was busy getting her drugs and playing house with new boyfriends, instead of paying attention to her children. She knew Somer was having problems and she knew Somer was not coming home from school with the other children-- she even provided the sitter with a list of friends and numbers to call in order to find Somer.
I do not believe DT killed Somer-- she was too busy with her boy toys and party life-- however-- I do believe this killer could easily be someone in and out of her home that is connected to one of many boyfriends, or druggie pals.
AND one last thing-- I don't believe the off topic or non-sleuthing about this case over the holiday is anyone's fault-- LE has not provided any information from the get go, and certainly hasn't provided any updates to help anyone with this case.
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5) Having your children collect money on street corners in exchange for fliers before she was discovered.
That's interesting--in one of the videos I viewed recently--think it was of the first vigil--the newscasters were talking about how numerous local businesses were printing the flyers for free.
5 star track record with loser men - maybe we should do checks on all her husbands to see how they affected mom T. and the kids. Could it be that they did ddrugs also? Maybe not receiving child support put mom T. at risk for losing her child to murder. Maybe the murderer is a friend of one of the husband's. You say you have common sense - so think about how having trouble with relationships can be so one-sided - you blame it all on mom. What the heck - don't the men involved have stamina to say 'no' to marriage or to a relationship? Are you suggesting they are all wimps?
I have never ONCE said the people in her life are not suspect. I have said that her party from over a year ago is not the reason Somer has been murdered. It could be a friend of one of her husbands or a neighbor, or a teacher, principal, or policeman, or perhaps, a child predator. I do not believe it was mom nor do I think her lifestyle is the reason for Somer being murdered. If life-style such as mom T's is the one and only reason Somer was murdered and thrown in the trash, then we would be able to prevent other children from the same fate as Somer. mho
I have as much right to disagree with the 20 or so pages of trashing mom T. over the holidays as you have to disagree with me. What's all the fuss about?
5 star track record with loser men - maybe we should do checks on all her husbands to see how they affected mom T. and the kids. Could it be that they did ddrugs also? Maybe not receiving child support put mom T. at risk for losing her child to murder. Maybe the murderer is a friend of one of the husband's. You say you have common sense - so think about how having trouble with relationships can be so one-sided - you blame it all on mom. What the heck - don't the men involved have stamina to say 'no' to marriage or to a relationship? Are you suggesting they are all wimps?
I have never ONCE said the people in her life are not suspect. I have said that her party from over a year ago is not the reason Somer has been murdered. It could be a friend of one of her husbands or a neighbor, or a teacher, principal, or policeman, or perhaps, a child predator. I do not believe it was mom nor do I think her lifestyle is the reason for Somer being murdered. If life-style such as mom T's is the one and only reason Somer was murdered and thrown in the trash, then we would be able to prevent other children from the same fate as Somer. mho
I have as much right to disagree with the 20 or so pages of trashing mom T. over the holidays as you have to disagree with me. What's all the fuss about?
That's interesting--in one of the videos I viewed recently--think it was of the first vigil--the newscasters were talking about how numerous local businesses were printing the flyers for free.
20 pages of trashing Mom? Maybe 20 comments about discussing the possibility of involvement and the reasons for thinking so.
I agree Lifestyle does not make a child killer. I am logging off for today see you all tomorrow..
Lets go play clue for awhile
It's MR mustard in the hall with the candle stick :woohoo:
I honestly believe that better judgement on her mothers part could have prevented somers murder, and I also believe another parent using better judgement could prevent other children this same fate.
20+ pages of trashing "mom t" (this is an unusual way to address DT) over the Holidays... she has been discussed more today than yesterday... I thought you were complaining about off topic conversations on smoking... I think 20+ pages is an exaggeration and yes, I also would like to know... whats all the fuss about?
I have two awful scenarios in my head. One is very similar to what others have stated here: that perhaps Mom located Somer and things got out of hand. The whailing and broken-heartedness we witnessed would still fit with that scenario. Can you imagine how any one of us would be absolutely tortured and crushed if we accidentally caused our own child's death? Oh my Gosh! Talk about denial to be able to even get out of bed?!?! I cannot even imagine the confusion, guilt, and suffering. I hope nothing like that happened.
The other scenario is of a dog attack. Perhaps a dog attacked Somer, and the owner panicked, similar to the hit-by-car scenarios brought up here.
Regardless of everything, I still wonder about SAP. He may be The One, or a part of something larger. I hope not, but .........
And there's a new person on my list ....... ARGH!!!!