I don't want to "stir" anything up, or ask inflammatory questions for the sake of - whatever people do that for...
No arrest, no "named" suspect, RSO's ruled out, stick men and vigil geeks, etc., having been sleuthed, LE tight-lipped, no new info about questionable vehiciles or peripheral abductions, etc...
Leads me back to the beginning. People here have strong suspicions one way or another. What else do we have to go on?
In the beginning, SP new age healer was reported to be the BF living with DT, who was at the home for unknown reasons (in spite of what was said on MPR which is not proven fact). In about thread 10 here, we come upon CPC as the boyfriend. Later sleuthing reveals some activities which cause some members here to !!!! such as




(around the kids?), listing himself as single when he's living with DT, and etc.
Sleuthing also reveals an earlier picture posted on a MySpace of DT doing what some WS'ers think are inappropriate things at a Halloween party. I have never seen those photos and don't want to. I am not judging what DT did. It was put out in a quasi-public forum and as such has become public, which reveals a specific activity.
According to posters here, SP was present in those pictures and someone said that there were photos of the kids in the background, which would lead one to believe this party took place in her home. Now do we know if CPC was her BF then or whether she was still married to ST or whether he was in Iraq at the time or what?
This question pertains to DT's lifestyle in the context of whatever males and other friends were around her kids and what activities were going on, and if the kids were in the vicinity. It speaks to opportunities for males, especially to have access to the children. To me, it infers a general lack of intelligence or common sense with reference to the kids - probably unless they were out of the home at the time. Whether they were or not, a lifestyle is a lifestyle. Whether you run around naked or dress like the Queen of England, smoke pot or read the Wall Street Journal your activities are going to rub off on your kids.
So I am asking, who was DT with when and who knew who? SAD says ST does not know SP which I think is strange, since SP seems to have been a very, VERY GOOD friend of DT for a long, long time. He was a pallbearer at the funeral of ST's daughter and ST was not allowed to talk to his children. ST obviously knows CPC somewhat because CPC is so hostile to him and why is that, anyway? If ST has not "been around for 2 years" then he hasn't done anything to CPC to give him the right to be a human shield at a public funeral. DOes CPC think nobody has a "right" to know him or that




is a better thing than a 2 year (reason questionable) absence. Now we know that DT and ST's divorce was acrimonious, perhaps she did not ALLOW ST access to the kids for those 2 years and is now saying he didn't care????
Back to the triangle, how well does SP the healer know CPC the




proponent? Very different interests. Do they have something in common? They are both significant males in DT's life and THROUGH DT, involved in the lives of the children. Because, as a mother who is
involved in her childrens' lives, the men in her life are going to be involved too by virtue of their proximity. A recent good example is the little one clinging to her leg up on stage at a Harley fundraiser.
How much, if any authority did these 2 males (ST not being involveld) have over these children? What was or is the relationship of the older male child to the men? Did they or do they have punitive authority - are they allowed to order the kids around, spank, punish them in any way? Did or do they have access to time alone with any or all of the children? Did they participate in wholesome activities with the children? Did they get along with Somer? Did they like or love Somer? Did they help Somer in any way?
What is the relationship of these two men with DT and her children now? CPC lives with them? How did it get reported earlier that SP was the live-in boyfriend, then it was CPC but SP lived there too? This was reported on this forum, WS, so I take it that it was researched because I trust the integrity of this forum. REMEMBER, I AM NEW.
Disclaimer: I am not psychic, and I do not know it all. I always wanted a little girl but I got 2 boys and it's a good thing, too. But God always sends me little girls to love.
C.Pants the dying (and arrogant) swan