I do believe that Mom, DT, was allowed to see her baby at some time before the service. Of course the would not let or want her to see Somer when she was found or before the atopsy, but I am sure, the professionals at the funeral home did their best to make this happen for Diena.
After the death of a family member, I was in total shock. I did go to the funeral home at night, before they closed to mke sure this was real. Thankfully a God my best friend took me... Needless to say, the results were pretty bad. Thank godness for medications, cause I never would have made it...