So bizarre. Nobody seems to care. Sorry in advance, but I've just gotta vent. Jmo
Based on the posts and posted links I've read in this thread (referencing family's SM) so far, it literally appears that the family has lost interest in JDD's disappearance (idk, maybe they've been told by LE to shut up?).
And both involved LE organizations (outwardly anyway) also appear not to be terribly concerned (see remarks below).
Even the WS community is (imo) strangely quiet. I just don't get it. It seems almost like this case is already a cold case.
No family SM posts pleading for help in locating JDD since early March? No FBI involvement. Not even any State of FL involvement (not that I've heard of anyway). And very unenthusiastic sleuthing, imo.
No Press Conferences - and yet it seems that this is not because LE is "keeping the investigation close to the vest", but rather because the investigation is just not terribly active. Idk
And.. nine pages on a WS thread when JDD was first reported missing back in late Feb? No sleuthers condemning the family for remaining "too" silent - like you often see on similar case threads (like SM)? Kind of a double standard, seems to me. The guy's got four kids..
And the spouse. How do you reconcile this (from Ashley89's post above): "His wife.. broken hearted and left to pick up the pieces" with the fact that she just sued him for divorce and custody on Jan 24? Now I admit I don't have the faintest idea what their relationship was like, but imo, accelerating divorce proceedings (April) seems to be an action that would create pieces, not help pick them up. It certainly appears that she attempted to accelerate legal proceedings against JDD at the very moment that she knew he would be unable to respond (and might even be in extreme physical distress or danger). Doesn't seem very broken hearted to me.
Was there a life insurance policy involved? Did somebody want JDD out of the picture? Was he involved in crime? Drugs? Just what is going on here?
And where the hell is his phone? Not even the media (that I know of) has asked "where is his phone?" And not a peep from LE. Or his family (not a single call or text made or rec'd since 2/13? Really?). Did he even bring his phone with him on the trip? Did he bring it with him in the kayak? How come the glaring absence of a phone is not being discussed - by anybody? Has LE traced it? Pinged it?
I also thought it odd that JDD told only one daughter and several co-workers about his planned fishing trip. There was no mention of him telling his wife or any other family members. I'm beginning to think that maybe JDD and his wife weren't speaking to each other, at all (just speculation). But if that was the case, it also doesn't jibe with "broken hearted".
This (lack of communication with family) might also account for what I think is possibly confusion over the intended length of the trip. I could be wrong, but a "four day fishing trip" could - and I think in this case, does - mean four (4) days of actual fishing. Otherwise you'd drive down to TPA for at most a single day or a day and a half of fishing, and then have to drive back overnight. I personally think (but don't know) that JDD planned to fish on the 16th, 17th, 18th, and 19th, and then return on the 20th (hence he was reported missing to CC on the 21st, when he failed to show). Why he didn't begin fishing on the 16th is a mystery to me. Maybe the weather was bad that day, or maybe the kayak shop was closed.
And re: LE. Imo, both CC and LCSO are acting like they can't be bothered by the whole affair. Either that or they know something very significant that we don't, and they are being very restrained in what they divulge. But from what I can see, CC STILL hasn't begun a meaningful investigation into JDD's disappearance. Maybe the case is out of their jurisdiction, idk. If so, maybe it's entirely up to LCSO. Yet JDD doesn't live in LC (or even FL for that matter), so woukd his disappearance really be all that important to LCSO?
What has CC done so far? Posted the fact that JDD is missing on their SM (LE) site on the 22nd? Did they not reach out to contact LCSO on either the 23rd or 24th (by which time credit card info could surely have been obtained, putting JDD in Inglis )? Apparentky it was LCSO who first called CC on the 25th, some 3-4 days AFTER JDD had been reported missing by his family/friends, not the other way around (and I bet it wasn't his wife who reported him missing either, but jmo). Hell, one almost wonders if there would even BE an investigation right now at all if it hadn't been for LCSO watching their SM like a hawk.
Why was JDD's family able to track down locations where his bank debit card was used faster than CC could (or would, or did)? Why did JDD's family have to? And apparently it was JDD's friends who had to drive to Florida to make requests of retail establishments to view store CCTV videos (versus CC contacting LCSO and having LCSO investigators go and review the videos?). Same questions. In fact, CC's early announcements about JDD's disappearance seemed to imply that JDD himself wasn't even the one using his own cards! All they (CC or LCSO) had to do was go check the videos! Jmo, but get off your butt! The case will never get solved that way
And I guess we just have to take LCSO's word that they "checked that area" (the area where the truck was later found on Mar 3rd) on Feb 27th and 28th. But maybe LCSO is just having to take the word of some patrol officer? Maybe they don't know for a fact that that location was checked? People have been known to lie, you know. If that truck was there the whole time, it changes a lot.
And, no press conferences. No announcements. No (recent) requests for help from the public. It's now mid-August.
Did JDD leave the hotel on the 16th or 17th? Has it been confirmed that he (in the flesh) rented the kayak on the 17th? Where is his phone? Are there suspicious prints on the truck? Why did he scratch it up so bad when parking? Which private drive was it on? Did JDD ever go to Cedar Key (and did his phone ping there)? Where is his phone (did I mention that already)? This isn't top secret investigative information. It's information that LE commonly / often releases, and would perhaps help locate JDD. But does anyone even care? Jmo