After all these years, it's tough to separate the facts from the myths. I don't pretend to know all the facts but I'm happy to share what I know. My first job out of college was the same job Roy Little had at the time of Mary's disappearance, a bank examiner with the GA Dept of Banking. Though I worked there some 20 years after Mary disappeared and Roy had long since left the department by then, there was at least one co-worker I remember who had worked with Roy. He spoke of Roy as a quiet fellow but a good guy. He felt the police had targeted Roy unfairly. Maybe that colors my opinion of Roy, but I've never felt there was any real evidence to point to Roy.
There's a frequently repeated misconception that Mary and Roy were separated. I believe it comes from some newspaper accounts that used the word "separated" to describe their physical separation the week of Mary's disappearance: Roy was working in the LaGrange area on a bank examination, staying in a motel, and Mary was in Atlanta. That was the life of a bank examiner - leave your hometown on Monday morning and drive home just a little early on Friday afternoon to allow time to fill out expense reports. Mary and Roy had been married only six weeks - they'd had a lavish wedding at Mary's family church, Myers Park Presbyterian, in Charlotte over the previous Labor Day weekend. They planned to host a small dinner party on Friday, October 15th in their Decatur apartment. There's nothing to point to any discord or any problems in the relationship between Mary and Roy.
I talked with one of Mary's friends from Charlotte who moved to Atlanta with his wife in early 1965 and reconnected with Mary. He told me he felt Roy and Mary were very much in love. Though he saw Roy as somewhat reserved and quiet, he felt there was clear affection between them. Mary was an attractive well-dressed, well-mannered young woman, but she was not considered glamorous or overtly sexual. She dated very little high school. One of her high school friends said, "Mary was just wonderful, but she didn't take up too much space in a room if you know what I mean." Some of Mary's photographs, especially her engagement photos, I think give a misleading impression of Mary as a sultry sensual woman with full lips. Mary did wear heavy makeup, probably because she had facial scars from severe teen acne. I see Mary as a young woman who was smart, hard working, sensible and very respectable. I believe her parents worked very hard to give Mary and her younger sister advantages and Mary was determined to make them proud.
Having said all that, we have to challenge assumptions to make progress. While I don't think Roy was involved in Mary's disappearance, what if he had some suspicions after she disappeared? What if he suspected someone, someone from C&S Bank, from security or law enforcement? What if he didn't have anything more than vague suspicions? What if he was a little afraid and too cautious to make any accusations? That's a very intriguing theory to me and one I had not considered before, thank you.