Truthful Lies
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Okay, I'm pretty interested in this case...mainly because, I could have ended up in just her situation had I not made some interesting (impulsive) changes in my life...and had the luxury of a supportive family and insurance-covered (nice) rehab.
I'm only bringing this up in case it could lead to more information (which I certainly think it could, if I'm correct). I read a bunch of comments and posts here and elsewhere on possible drug usage...and I was there once.
Here's one obvious thing only if she did use anything...certainly something I would have thought about if I were moving: I would want to see my "connect" to get some stuff before I went out of town and CERTAINLY if I were moving....you don't know how long it will take when you go somewhere else to "find" another connect.
I was lucky enough to have one that was a good friend of a good friend...and they were very careful. If Sunday's "connect" were just an acquaintance or a friend of a friend (casual), she'd likely not have that "protected" status among the dealers/other people. Just sayin'.
And I'd say one of her friends definitely had to have known who she scored from (whatever her drug of choice, even if it was just weed)....they may not have ever met the person, but I highly suspect she would have said the name of the person she was going to meet at SOME POINT to someone....maybe not near her disappearance time, but I can easily see her chatting on a phone to a girlfriend and saying "well, I'm on my way over to so-and-so's house...let me call you back".
I've seen it over and over with different people. No one really hides the first name/nickname of their dealer...and usually the dealer is smart enough to go by a moniker (and only a select few know their real name or where they live...if they're smart).
My boyfriend suggested this when I ran my idea by him: he agrees with my theory....but here's a twist: perhaps she owed the "connect" money, and somehow they found out she was moving. Another idea: she would have tried to get more than usual to tide her over and some addicts intentionally get small amounts at a time so they don't OD if they have very little willpower (it's one "safety" method with one's self).
JUST THOUGHTS for someone (if close to her) who might read this....see if that can yield some information. A boyfriend would have most definitely known who her connect was. Has he been thoroughly investigated? He wouldn't have wanted her to move...perhaps she told him she didn't want a long distance relationship.
I have no judgement...think she's beautiful inside and out (from what I know). Praying for her.
I'm only bringing this up in case it could lead to more information (which I certainly think it could, if I'm correct). I read a bunch of comments and posts here and elsewhere on possible drug usage...and I was there once.
Here's one obvious thing only if she did use anything...certainly something I would have thought about if I were moving: I would want to see my "connect" to get some stuff before I went out of town and CERTAINLY if I were moving....you don't know how long it will take when you go somewhere else to "find" another connect.
I was lucky enough to have one that was a good friend of a good friend...and they were very careful. If Sunday's "connect" were just an acquaintance or a friend of a friend (casual), she'd likely not have that "protected" status among the dealers/other people. Just sayin'.
And I'd say one of her friends definitely had to have known who she scored from (whatever her drug of choice, even if it was just weed)....they may not have ever met the person, but I highly suspect she would have said the name of the person she was going to meet at SOME POINT to someone....maybe not near her disappearance time, but I can easily see her chatting on a phone to a girlfriend and saying "well, I'm on my way over to so-and-so's house...let me call you back".
I've seen it over and over with different people. No one really hides the first name/nickname of their dealer...and usually the dealer is smart enough to go by a moniker (and only a select few know their real name or where they live...if they're smart).
My boyfriend suggested this when I ran my idea by him: he agrees with my theory....but here's a twist: perhaps she owed the "connect" money, and somehow they found out she was moving. Another idea: she would have tried to get more than usual to tide her over and some addicts intentionally get small amounts at a time so they don't OD if they have very little willpower (it's one "safety" method with one's self).
JUST THOUGHTS for someone (if close to her) who might read this....see if that can yield some information. A boyfriend would have most definitely known who her connect was. Has he been thoroughly investigated? He wouldn't have wanted her to move...perhaps she told him she didn't want a long distance relationship.
I have no judgement...think she's beautiful inside and out (from what I know). Praying for her.