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TY, very interesting.Never have heard this before.
Wow, I've never heard that either! Can animals smell serotonin? Is that why my cats know when I'm dangerously depressed?
TY, very interesting.Never have heard this before.
Gardener1850: I don't think this is done too often. I grew up next to a railway, and I don't ever recall seeing anyone do this. I believe they have machines (like snowplows) attached to the front of a locomotive to move any large thing off the tracks.
I have followed other cases where scent (tracking, not cadaver or human remains detection) dogs were used to look for a missing person who may have left on foot. What I learned from those cases was extremely interesting. We had some search and rescue experts posting at that time on those cases. These people were expert dog handlers and knew just about everything there is to know about how dogs track people, either dead or alive.
The experts told us that a person who is depressed or suicidal may give off a different scent than when they are not in a depressed or suicidal state. Humans would not be able to notice such a subtle difference in body chemistry or the person's scent, but to a trained search and rescue dog, there would be a different scent.
The way it was explained to me was that if the scent article provided to the dog was a shirt or a towel or something that the missing person had at the home, the dog would be trying to track that scent. However, if the missing person left on foot in a suicidal or depressed state, the scent wouldn't "match" the scent article the dog was tracking and the dog would not be able to to find a trail for the missing person.
I hope that makes sense. Maybe a verified search and rescue expert will join us here to further explain the science behind this.
And for the record, I obviously don't know if Tim left on foot or if he was depressed or suicidal when he left, since he has not been found, but I have been thinking about the dogs and if that's why they haven't found a trail for him, if they haven't.
Tim lived alone in that house ? just him and his dog ?
As a person with mental illness (borderline personality disorder), a fairly high achiever and a perfectionist who hates to disappoint people, suicide has sometimes seemed like an attractive option. When everything else is out of control, it is the one thing you can control, and you can do it on your own terms ("You can't fire me, I quit!").
For me, one specific thing has stuck out like a sore thumb. In either a TV or print interview, Tim's dad was quoted as saying he "ordered" his children to join him at his destination 60th birthday. They were "expected" to be present. Perhaps it was a joke; I'm not aware of any context that might have accompanied that quote. Mr. Cunningham's continued insistence that his son was so dependable, so reliable, this was so out of character for Tim, says something very important to me: Either A) Tim's parents were unaware of any potential mental health traits, conditions or impairments he may have had, or B) Tim's parents have some awareness of potential mental health issues but believe they're the sort of thing that can be overcome with "willpower" or "discipline."
Depending on the family atmosphere, having to tell his parents that he didn't receive a promotion may have been just as devastating as missing out on the promotion itself. I can empathize with that.
I can only speak about BPD, but a hallmark of that illness is an intense fear of rejection and abandonment. The fear may be based in reality (neglect, abuse) or it may be perceived. Regardless, the borderline will do almost anything to avoid the rejection/abandonment. Often, those coping mechanisms or behaviors are negative and destructive. It could be extreme ("If you leave me, I'll kill myself") or harmful only to the borderline themselves (self-harm). To somebody like a borderline, the idea of suicide seems attractive. No more disappointing anyone. Nobody can leave you or reject you if you're gone. And most of all, your brain will finally be quiet and at peace.
I am NOT suggesting that Tim is a borderline. But I wanted to give some perspective.
Roughly one out of every 22 people in the United States has a mental illness that would be considered debilitating or disabling. That doesn't mean they've been diagnosed or are receiving the proper care. That's just a raw number. Seems like you'd know who those people were, right? They'd be popping up left and right, but they aren't. That's because it is eminently possible to continue living your life, with varying degrees of success, without other people realizing something is wrong. By simply showing up to work, getting your kids to school and paying your bills and taxes, many other things can and do fall under the radar.
Sometimes, we take refuge under that radar. And when the cover is blown, it is a catastrophic blow to an already precarious life.
Wow, I've never heard that either! Can animals smell serotonin? Is that why my cats know when I'm dangerously depressed?
Wow, I've never heard that either! Can animals smell serotonin? Is that why my cats know when I'm dangerously depressed?
I asked a while back if that house didn't seem really big for one person, and folks from that area said no, it's a pretty typical size even for a single person. Seems huge to me, but I'm not American.
Yes, I believe so. I know that some studies have been done in cats showing that they can "smell" cancer in people. It's an area of research that is still developing, but I find it fascinating. Dogs and cats have incredibly sensitive senses of smell. Even minor differences in body chemistry can be noticed by them and if they are specifically trained for tracking or detection purposes, there is a whole world of possibilities for application of their natural abilities.
It is so difficult to read his thread, I hope we learn soon if he has been found. A brilliant mind and so much to live for so it would seem. Work related career stress is brutal.
Getting the promotion wouldn't have been the cause, but it could have his breaking point, where he felt he couldn't handle anything else, or that the status quo was intolerable. What he achieved and accomplished has very little to do with how he might have seen himself, or how he felt emotionally, or his ability to cope.
Source - myself, as an overachiever with degrees and letters after my name and a high level position at a fortune 500 company. I'm on two antidepressants, an antianxiety med, sleeping meds... just so I can get up and get through the day and pretend to be ok. Coworkers and friends are clueless. Family, less so, but still nowhere near knowing how close to the edge I've gotten.
He is not in a high-risk demographic to be a crime victim (age, education, employment, family background, etc), and far more people commit suicide than disappear to start another life. With his family's comments, leaving his dog and belongings, this just screams suicide to me.
They need to search within a couple miles of his home, and searchers need to remember to look up.
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