These were all self inflicted though, spratsmum.A man, like a woman, has to take some responsibility. Imo, GBC has a great support network, so I don't think of GBC fighting some lone battle.
He wasn't ashamed to ask friends for exorbitant amounts of money, what kind of person does that? A desperate fool or someone acquainted with getting their own way? jmho
I do acknowledge that PrimeSuspect, but men like Gerard have been used to someone looking after them, cleaning up after them, mothering them. GBC has never grown up, he is just a child whose playmates weren't playing nice and he spat the dummy. If the parents and OW are involved in some way (and I believe they probably are) even if it was after the crime, truly who would risk there own live and freedom, you might on a spur of the moment action, but when you had more time and were rational, you would have to talk sense firstly to yourself and then in this case GBC. I know there have been cases were parents have taken the fall for their children, but OW, she has her own children and husband, her income is the church - it just seems to me that one of them, over all this time, would have seen sense. Everyone can't fall on the sword for the sake of GBC, or perhaps they can.
Just on OW, I don't think if she was staying with her parents on the 19th, that she could have failed to be aware of the goings on. Too many people, cars moving, talking, phone calls etc, one of them would have woken her.