I don't know what happened.
I believe, based on what I've heard (including what the media has dished out) and on general intuition, that OP is guilty of intentionally killing Reeva. I readily admit that this is just an opinion on my part, with imperfect information.
Having said that I would like to applaud Carol (and others) who are looking for reasons to believe that OP didn't kill Reeva intentionally, or those who are willing to entertain the idea and play devil's advocate. For the majority to jump to a conclusion and to bully the opposing views away in just not acceptable, or helpful.
I believe that everyone deserves their day in court; their chance at a fair trial. So, I have to say that this bothered me:
Look at the media! I have never seen a case where the media is allowed to be so close to an accused in court. I find it offensive....examining every little detail of the accused's decorum. That's just not right. Let's give the guy a chance for a fair trial, and let the truth come out.
In the end this is about finding out the TRUTH, not about presuming that the accused is guilty. A young woman was killed and her family is mourning. Let's find out what REALLY happened. Keep it coming Carol. I'm happy to spar with you.
(I still believe that OP is guilty of intentional murder, but that is simply my opinion, and doesn't count for anything since I don't know the facts.)