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I agree she is opening a door to an unkind world by the choices she continues to make, but i disagree she is vulnerable or trusting. I think she knows exactly what she's doing. MOO.
Imo I don’t get the sense that she has any idea of what lies ahead but you could well be correct. All will unfold in time and become clear.
 
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Imo I don’t get the sense that she has any idea of what lies ahead but you could well be correct. All will unfold in time and become clear.
If she doesn't know what lies ahead, she has a lot of people, including her attorney, who is there to explain that to her.
 
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If she doesn't know what lies ahead, she has a lot of people, including her attorney, who is there to explain that to her.
Yes. If only they all had her best interests in mind ! I don’t think they do. And I don’t sense she understands that. I think she thinks they are her “friends”.
As mentioned - she seems to have led a very simple maybe even reclusive/sheltered life. I see no sophistication and not a lot of self awareness.
But we will see as it all unfolds. I have been wrong before !

JMO.
 
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The children should have access to special counseling and emotional support for the psych trauma they're having to deal with now and during the next few years. BTK's daughter has spoken and written very well about the trauma she endured in the years after her father's arrest. It all probably came as a total shock to the daughter and son and I hope they get the help they need in coping with the stress and carrying on with their lives.
I agree. The family needs to participate in counseling.
 
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Has anyone noticed that AE is no longer walking around with a cane, like she was in the beginning? What was that about?
 
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All of these recent posts make me think that everyone is missing the big picture here:

When Heuermann is ultimately charged with, and then faces trial for, the murder of Karen Vergata, will Asa Ellerup be called as a witness to dispute the claims of testimony of witness who has already signed a sworn affidavit attesting visiting Hueuermann’s home with her then boyfriend, who was an NYPD officer at the time, along with Vergata, for swinger party that Asa Ellerup was also allegedly present for?
 
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All of these recent posts make me think that everyone is missing the big picture here:

When Heuermann is ultimately charged with, and then faces trial for, the murder of Karen Vergata, will Asa Ellerup be called as a witness to dispute the claims of testimony of witness who has already signed a sworn affidavit attesting visiting Hueuermann’s home with her then boyfriend, who was an NYPD officer at the time, along with Vergata, for swinger party that Asa Ellerup was also allegedly present for?

I think the prosecution is a long way from charging RH for the murder of Vergata, or even proving that RH was the last person to see her. I am guessing that there is no DNA or other forensic evidence, so far, to connect him to the remains
If the defense wants to use a cooperative wife as a witness, there is nothing to prevent that.
 
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The support issue, I believe, is the care he may need (and not $). It’s possible that he cannot be left alone, and cannot care for himself. He may need 24/7 and may not tolerate strangers helping (in- home care expensive and doubt having stranger in house right now would be wise). It’s likely Asa is a full time carer for her son, (which is why she is taking him to shops with his food stamps) daughter may be giving mother & brother support. We just don’t know. But do know being full time 24/7 carer is a difficult job.

All of these recent posts make me think that everyone is missing the big picture here:

When Heuermann is ultimately charged with, and then faces trial for, the murder of Karen Vergata, will Asa Ellerup be called as a witness to dispute the claims of testimony of witness who has already signed a sworn affidavit attesting visiting Hueuermann’s home with her then boyfriend, who was an NYPD officer at the time, along with Vergata, for swinger party that Asa Ellerup was also allegedly present for?
I didn't hear about the swinger party. WOW
 
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I think the prosecution is a long way from charging RH for the murder of Vergata, or even proving that RH was the last person to see her. I am guessing that there is no DNA or other forensic evidence, so far, to connect him to the remains
If the defense wants to use a cooperative wife as a witness, there is nothing to prevent that.
bbm
Hopefully she'll be caught, if she lies.
 
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A Long Island attorney is moving forward with plans to unveil purported new evidence in the Gilgo Beach serial murders case despite objections from the lead prosecutor.

 
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The adult, healthy daughter attended college and worked. She doesn’t have to be supported. The victims’ families have struggled and forged on.
If she is having trouble getting work ATM, she also has UIB. Since she's been photograghed, it's possible some employers would be afraid she'd attract paparazzi. (Not that this is fair to her, but it's an employers world.)

She is in an unfortunate situation through no fault of her own. It's not easy, I'm sure. But as you pointed out, the victims survivors are coping with worse. She deserves empath, but does not need to be financially supported.

MOO
 
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(sorry, I started to reply, decided I had nothing to add, then couldn't remove this waldojabba box.)
Has anyone noticed that AE is no longer walking around with a cane, like she was in the beginning? What was that about?

Not a big deal; some symptom that the cane helped is simply not present ATM.

A lot of illnesses and body problems flare up/disappear from time to time.

JMO, MOO
 
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A Long Island attorney is moving forward with plans to unveil purported new evidence in the Gilgo Beach serial murders case despite objections from the lead prosecutor.

Thank you, John Ray! Justice for Shannan and all the LISK victims.

MOO
 
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If she is having trouble getting work ATM, she also has UIB. Since she's been photograghed, it's possible some employers would be afraid she'd attract paparazzi. (Not that this is fair to her, but it's an employers world.)

She is in an unfortunate situation through no fault of her own. It's not easy, I'm sure. But as you pointed out, the victims survivors are coping with worse. She deserves empath, but does not need to be financially supported.

MOO
I do have empathy for the family however, there are services available and they need to seek out help. The paid Peacock streaming documentary is disgusting. I keep thinking of the victims‘ families who’ve received so little assistance.
 
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I do have empathy for the family however, there are services available and they need to seek out help. The paid Peacock streaming documentary is disgusting. I keep thinking of the victims‘ families who’ve received so little assistance.
I don't disagree.

Nor do I feel you are not empathic to Rex's family.

MOO
 
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The adult, healthy daughter attended college and worked. She doesn’t have to be supported. The victims’ families have struggled and forged on.
she worked for RH.... what kind of resume is that? "My Dad will give you a reference but he's in prison right now..."
 

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