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Well, in her defense, there is no way to answer that. Like the classic 'have you stopped beating your wife'.Well at least she said she felt for the victims. That's a first...
You knew, and you're party to it. You didn't know, and you're obviously deficient somehow. Never mind that serial killers with that social mask often very successfully compartmentalise their family life and true self from each other. Rader, Ridgway, Keyes, etc. all did.
We can have all kinds of opinions about the way she's behaved and what she's said and done since his arrest, but judging her for 'not knowing' shouldn't be one of them. Women get asked 'how could you not know' about crap men do every single day, from infidelity to child abuse to fraud to addiction, and the fact of the matter is, men lie, and men who like to lie a lot and have a secret part of their life choose as spouses women who don't ask questions or pay attention to behaviour or inconsistencies that more suspicious folks would find worrying. When he met and married her he was already a murderer. He chose her because he knew she wouldn't threaten that side of his life.
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