I was grateful that someone finally said something about all the bashing of MF appearance. I typically don’t post, so I didn’t feel good about throwing my two cents in until now... so thank you.
You never REALLY know what might be going on with a person. My looks changed drastically enough that I don’t often leave the house because I am so self conscious. Most from poor choices I made after getting narcotics from the doctor and then getting addicted to them (I lost most of my teeth as a result). I had two children very close together, my dad who was married to my mom for 30+ years told us he was gay and then my mom was diagnosed with cancer and moved in with my family to die. Then two years ago I was diagnosed with Guillain-Barré syndrome and gained a lot of weight when I was unable to walk. This isn’t a boohoo post, I know that we ALL go through a lot. I’m also not at all defending the abhorrent actions of MF, but it IS important to be reminded that we should all be a little more kind to one another and especially the way one perceives outer beauty. We all have something.![]()
Oh, sarabean, I just read your post.



I hope life is improving dramatically for you, over time.



Hope you are well looked after, and have support.
You sure have experienced great trauma in your life, and certainly our appearance may change enormously with such events.
Down the track, we may hear of MF's life experiences also.
MOO.