I absolutely agree! I don't know how I'd go on. I empathize deeply.
On that note, my children are young, we've had stranger danger talks before, but without freaking them out I'm desperately trying to find a way to express how dangerous it is and how they are NEVER to go anywhere with a stranger. How to react if someone grabs them. As an aside, any advice? They are 5 and newly 3, and while I think some got through to my oldest (he's really sharp, he even said "If someone grabs me, is it ok to kick them... in the BOTTOM?"...) but I find that, as he's incredibly imaginative, he creates all of these fictitious scenarios where he creates disguises, etc. Any advice on a way to SERIOUSLY get this through to young children?? This has me completely unnerved! Is there a resource (So as not to disrupt the activity and flow of this forum)?