K_Z
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Thanks for weighing in, folks.
The lack of referring to DWS either by name, or as "the dad" strikes me as having a couple opposite possibilities:
- Sheltering DWS from scrutiny, by not naming him by name, or as "the baby's dad". If the relationship between DWS and Markeya was really "good" and progressing in a positive direction, there might be an impulse to shelter DWS from scrutiny, since things looked pretty awful at that moment. Siobhan might have been trying subconsciously to protect her friend Markeya, who wouldn't have wanted to be associated with abandoning a baby in trouble.
or
- Depersonalizing him as a mere "somebody" who was "babysitting", in order to distance him from the relationship with Markeya and Gabriel, because leaving Gabriel alone was such a disastrous thing to do. It also strikes me that if there was some kind of ongoing, or very recent serious disagreement between Markeya and him, there might be the tendency to depersonalize and "demote" him as just a "somebody" who was "babysitting". For example, if they had quarreled just before she left to run errands.
- I agree with alp66ine that the interpretation that the caller might know "more" about what happened is also a strong possibility. The phrasing fits that kind of pattern.
But I disagree that a possible explanation is that she may have forgotten his name. Even if she didn't know him well, and forgot his given name, it seems pretty doubtful she would forget the designation that he was the baby's father.
Anyway, I think the significance, of the caller's statement to 911, if there is any, will only be apparent in hindsight, when we know more about what happened.
The lack of referring to DWS either by name, or as "the dad" strikes me as having a couple opposite possibilities:
- Sheltering DWS from scrutiny, by not naming him by name, or as "the baby's dad". If the relationship between DWS and Markeya was really "good" and progressing in a positive direction, there might be an impulse to shelter DWS from scrutiny, since things looked pretty awful at that moment. Siobhan might have been trying subconsciously to protect her friend Markeya, who wouldn't have wanted to be associated with abandoning a baby in trouble.
or
- Depersonalizing him as a mere "somebody" who was "babysitting", in order to distance him from the relationship with Markeya and Gabriel, because leaving Gabriel alone was such a disastrous thing to do. It also strikes me that if there was some kind of ongoing, or very recent serious disagreement between Markeya and him, there might be the tendency to depersonalize and "demote" him as just a "somebody" who was "babysitting". For example, if they had quarreled just before she left to run errands.
- I agree with alp66ine that the interpretation that the caller might know "more" about what happened is also a strong possibility. The phrasing fits that kind of pattern.
But I disagree that a possible explanation is that she may have forgotten his name. Even if she didn't know him well, and forgot his given name, it seems pretty doubtful she would forget the designation that he was the baby's father.
Anyway, I think the significance, of the caller's statement to 911, if there is any, will only be apparent in hindsight, when we know more about what happened.