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conflicting stories about history or lack of. Hoping those get nailed down by LE down the road
Is it possible that, if bio-dad did have a 'run in w the law, his attorney could have requested that his records be sealed? And they were?
IDK.
Justice for Baby Gabriel: Iowa adoption tragedy
Iowa View: Let's celebrate adoption, not stigmatize it
Rieper said Gabriel's birth parents did not sign a release of custody, and that the termination of parental rights was scheduled to be finalized on March 24th.
Interesting comment from the McFarland's attorney. The phrasing of this sentence, IMO, implies that because the birth parents did not voluntarily sign the release of custody, alternative (perhaps statutory?) methods were being used to terminate parental rights and give custody to the McFarlands.
I wonder if the McFarlands had to apply for foster parent status before, or while this was going on? I seem to remember from our adoption classes that domestic adoptive families in our state needed to go thru the foster parent training and approval, even if they didn't intend to foster parent other children, so that they were eligible to have a child placed with them while completing the adoption. Very complicated.
http://www.kwwl.com/story/25346195/...laws-explained-in-light-of-baby-gabriel-death
The video has more details (3 min). One interesting comment from an Iowa atty interviewed is that even if a birth parent signs a release of custody, the prospective adoptive parents are legally viewed as guardians for 6 months.
BBM for focus.
The McFarlands would have had to undergo a home study as prospective adoptive parents, whether or not they had been qualified as foster parents.
https://www.childwelfare.gov/pubs/f_homstu.cfm
http://www.adoptuskids.org/for-families/how-to-foster/completing-a-foster-home-study
Thank you. Very interesting.
I know nothing about K2, I appreciate the link.
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The Drug Enforcement Administration on Wednesday broadened its national crackdown on synthetic drug manufacturers, wholesalers and retailers as federal agents served hundreds of search and arrest warrants in at least 25 states.
Agents served warrants at homes, warehouses and smoke shops beginning early morning, DEA spokesman Rusty Payne said. The largest single operation was a statewide effort in Alabama. Agents also were active in 28 other states.
The DEA said agents made more than 150 arrests and served about 200 warrants. Federal, state and local authorities seized hundreds of thousands of individual packets of synthetic drugs and hundreds of kilograms of synthetic products used to make the drugs.
iirc, the parents said it in a context of there were many hoops they went through to prove themselves as having the ability to properly care for a child while the biological mother who gave him up and took him back after months wasn't put to the same degree of scrutiny. I think they raise a valid point.
JMO
I agree. This infant should have been under the supervision of child protective services from the moment of placement back with the birth mother, IMO. There was ample justification for CPS supervision, IMO, as the child had a serious disability that required ongoing care, the bio mother was 16 years old, unemployed, no HS diploma, living alone in an apartment, a recent arrest for abuse of the 911 system while babysitting a 2 year old, with synthetic drugs present, and the infant had spent 3/4 of his life with prospective adoptive parents.
Lots and lots of red flags where social services intervention should have been implemented, IMO. May not have made a difference in the outcome, but it sure would have been a better beginning for the safety of the baby.
I would be in favor of working to change state laws to mandate CPS involvement in all "take-back" situations, for a minimum period time after reunification-- such as the first 90 days, with a report back family court. Adoptive parents have to have oversight, often for many years, as do parents who have had their children removed to foster care, and want to work toward reunification.
There is no justifiable reason, IMO, to not mandate social services supervision as a condition of taking custody back when a bio parent changes their mind. Particularly, in the first 90 days or so of reunification with the birth parent, when the child and parent are in need of a lot of support. This kind of a policy would put the child's safety, well-being, and interests at the center of the situation, not the bio parent.
The CPS and child welfare system isn't perfect by a long shot-- in many places it is broken beyond fixing, IMO. But it is the only thing we have as a social safety net for kids. We should mandate it in these circumstances, IMO.
Some people here seem to be confusing an arrest with a conviction.
So far the 17 year old has not been convicted.
As for prosecution having experts, we don't know what these experts say.
Furthermore, experts could have different opinions from each other, especially in cases of shaken baby syndrome.
So, until we know what these experts say and if they even agree, I sure wouldn't be claiming that we know what happened.
Quite the leap to shaken baby syndrome ...please provide link to autopsy or source confirming that.
There is one suspect, one arrest. It wasn't the child's mother.
I don't understand the leap into defense attorney shoes, with fabricated suspicion thrown at this mother. STOP IT! It's not deserved!
Nor do I understand why the bashing of this baby's mother is allowed to continue here. She's a victim. Her child was killed.
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V. CDC Definition of Pediatric Abusive Head Trauma
Pediatric abusive head trauma is defined as an injury to the skull or intracranial contents of an infant or young
child (< 5 years of age) due to inflicted blunt impact and/or violent shaking.
The following are excluded from the case definition:
• Unintentional injuries resulting from neglectful supervision
• Gunshot wounds / stab wounds / penetrating trauma
Sorry Gabriel. Maybe one day this thread will be about you rather than mom's decisions
The mother is a victim here. Her baby was killed. She is a victim.
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