Found Deceased ID - Joshua Vallow, 7, & Tylee Ryan, 17, Rexburg, Sept 2019 *mom, arrested* #20

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@CSIDreamer
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BD (Bipolar disorder) and BPD (Borderline personality disorder) are two very different disorders with different treatment options.
The abbreviations for each can be different for different countries so that can add to confusion.
Bipolar disorder is a mood disorder causing severe mood changes.
Borderline personality disorder is a personality disorder.

There are lots of good medical references out there that compare the two conditions.

:) Hope this helps the conversation!

Yes it does. I just felt there were 2 different diagnoses being referred to with the same initials. Gets a bit confusing. Plus then sometimes blanket assumptions are made with no indications of "I'm speculating, this is my opinion only" and things go downhill. Jmo
 
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I've been thinking about the way Lori justifies the things she says and her choice of verbiage. I actually think she believes these things. 1- This is a CUSTODY issue- I think she really believes it is about custody of the money. 2- CV's HEART ATTACK- does she really believe that his heart was simply attacked by a bullet? Not to mention her crass and downright vulgar description of JJ as her niece's drug baby. No, JJ is YOUR SON through adoption. Remember she wants to make her legal claim over KW and LW. You don't get to pick and choose when he is or is not your child.
Telling people that your husband died of a heart attack sounds a lot better than telling people your brother killed your husband.
 
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The 1st marriage has been reported by a number of news organisations early on. And no one has changed opinion openly. Also the surname is openly available.

I wonder if it was annulled? Would records show this? Or are they scrubbed like it never happened?

On another note. If DR Phil won't diagnose people even after interviewing them I don't know why anyone else thinks they can. Please don't speak on things you don't have direct knowledge of. Please no more cavalier diagnosis of Lori or anyone else. At the end of the day a name of a disorder won't help pushing this case forward. If fact it might hurt it and spread misunderstanding. Enough people have been offended now. Lets not hurt anyone else.
Are you are referring "partner #1? If his surname is aviable, what is it? It pertains directly to Lori, so am sure we can state right? I know we have 2,3,4,5... but did not think we had a surname on #1...
 
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Today's takeaways:

The last day Tylee was seen, at Yellowstone NP, was Free National Parks Day.

No. 9/26 was the free day. Tylee was last seen on 9/8. JJ was last seen on 9/23.
 
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Today's takeaways:

The last day Tylee was seen, at Yellowstone NP, was Free National Parks Day.

I didn't realize that CR wasn't the bio son of JR, that he had been adopted when JR and L were married. (am I the last one to know this?)

L paid the Nanny in cash, even though Nanny requested Venmo

Chad plans on leaving the island when his lease is up this Friday.

No wonder I don't get anything done around here anymore...
Well.... you are not the last to know. You are the first to know now!!! Seriously, yes, we have always known about CR was not born to JR, but has his name.
 
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Chad plans on leaving the island when his lease is up this Friday.

Do we know his plans? I did see something indicating he was moving out of the leased townhouse, but does that mean he's leaving Hawaii? Not knowing exactly what their obligation for the TH is and how to end the lease I wondered if possibly he was ending the lease at the end of the month because staying a day past that obligates him to stay (or at least pay) for the entire month. Maybe he's going to move to a hotel nearer the courthouse or something for the few days between then and Lori's court date.

MOO
 
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MB and AC got married at different chapels in Las Vegas. Not sure why I find that interesting, but I do. Maybe AC didn't want to be recognized?
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I have also had to bust out a physical calendar to keep track of all the crazy in this case.
 
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Great interview done by Joseph's sister. When she was asked about any potential life insurance that Tylee may be privy to, it occurred to me that Lori must have been the one to go through his belongings as apparently no one else was able to - they didn't even know he had died. So I don't know who could know if there was life insurance or not which is too bad. Who knows what Lori did with Joe's belongings!
 
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@CSIDreamer
and


BD (Bipolar disorder) and BPD (Borderline personality disorder) are two very different disorders with different treatment options.
The abbreviations for each can be different for different countries so that can add to confusion.
Bipolar disorder is a mood disorder causing severe mood changes.
Borderline personality disorder is a personality disorder.

There are lots of good medical references out there that compare the two conditions.

:) Hope this helps the conversation!

It really does help. Conversations like this are important. People need to know that borderlines and bipolars are not interchangeable, but they both are treatable conditions. I'm bipolar and rapid cycling, but I also know that I have a chemical disorder and I am on heavy meds for it because I go coo coo bananas if I'm not. And I asked for help a long time ago for it with people I loved and it's not the end of the world, because I just take my meds and keep a good schedule... I haven't had a spiral in like five years, that's how good my meds and my structure works, and I prioritize it. And plenty of borderline people have done the same thing, and are cool and valid despite their problems. But the disorders are not interchangeable... It's a lot harder to medicate or address a personality disorder than a medical disorder for example, but it's always worth the effort. Everyone deserves to be functional and happy and to be a better person.
 
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Are you are referring "partner #1? If his surname is aviable, what is it? It pertains directly to Lori, so am sure we can state right? I know we have 2,3,4,5... but did not think we had a surname on #1...

I have it. It starts with an N. Let me find the news report and I can then say it in the group within guidelines.
 
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Oh good grief..Now another facet to this woman!
geez... we had heard this earlier, but think someone had determined it was not true/ True it is! Interesting again...how the old friend says Lori was so sweet and JR was the bad guy in the marriage...
 
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The 1st marriage has been reported by a number of news organisations early on. And no one has changed opinion openly. Also the surname is openly available.

I wonder if it was annulled? Would records show this? Or are they scrubbed like it never happened?

On another note. If DR Phil won't diagnose people even after interviewing them I don't know why anyone else thinks they can. Please don't speak on things you don't have direct knowledge of. Please no more cavalier diagnosis of Lori or anyone else. At the end of the day a name of a disorder won't help pushing this case forward. If fact it might hurt it and spread misunderstanding. Enough people have been offended now. Lets not hurt anyone else.

This is my own opinion. I wouldn't trust Dr. Phil's opinion as far as I can throw him. His advice can be downright dangerous. Here is an article from a legitimate Psychologist that has an excellent article pointing this out:

Dr Phil and Domestic Violence: He Just Doesn't Get It - Shrink4Men

MOO
 
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I also agree with these points, and would like to add a couple of my own thoughts. There is so much out there in MSM, but the info that is pertinent, IMO, is this "belief system" of theirs, which you mention, and gives major insight into what is going on. (I have added MSM links for reference to where I received my information, see below).

  • CD and LVD are "sealed" to each other through some ritualistic meeting, by Moroni. They also believe that they were already married in other lives.
  1. Moroni according to the Book of Mormon, was the last Nephite prophet, historian, and military commander who lived in the Americas in the late fourth and early fifth centuries
  • CD and LVD are the "Leaders" and are now responsible for gathering the couples for the 144,000.
  • They make charts of who the people are and how many probation's they have had and who they have been in past lives. The 12 apostles are also on this list. (Tammy was once on this list and was noted as once being married to John the beloved who was also Enoch).
  1. Probation's - definition: previous lives
CD and LVD are "responsible" for deciding if a man and a woman might be destined to be together, even if that person is married to someone else. Like multiple probation's, (this is not a Latter-day Saint belief). Within their circle, this appears to be a predominant issue.

CD teaches that people can essentially be reincarnated and live multiple times — and have multiple probations — on earth. (Reincarnation is not accepted Latter-day Saint doctrine.)

An interesting note ...
CDs autobiography states he does not believe in reincarnation.

“He goes out there, but he doesn’t go that far out,” Bertram said. “He’s making some pretty strong assertions, he just knows that there’s a line and he’s going to stay behind that line.”,

BUT.. LVD, however...
The documents indicate LVD reportedly told her now-deceased husband Charles Vallow she is a “reincarnated God” who would “murder him if he got in the way of her mission.”
  1. Starting in February of 2019, Charles Vallow filed for divorce from LVD and requested full custody of JJ. The court filing claims that LVD had "become infatuated and at times obsessive about near-death experiences and spiritual visions."
  2. LVD also allegedly told Charles that "she is sealed (eternally married) to the ancient Book of Mormon prophet Moroni and that she has lived numerous lives on numerous planets prior to this current life."
  3. Weeks before the divorce filing, Charles said LVD told him that "she is a translated being who cannot taste death sent by God to lead the 144,000 into the Millennium.
  4. "The divorce documents allege that Lori believed that Jesus Christ's second coming would happen in July 2020 and only 144,000 would live through it.
  5. Charles also claimed that Lori threatened to kill him if he got in the way of her mission. "I mean imagine what you would do if you had a god speak to you would start feeling a little bit empowered and it looks like that is exactly what happened," Chad Daybell's old missionary friend told Dateline.

At the beginning of CD's autobiography is a dedication to his wife Tammy: “My one and only.”
The autobiography goes on to describe marrying Tammy Daybell at the Manti Temple and working as a grave digger at the same cemetery where she would later be buried.
CD wrote that he believes their five children will have a role to play in the second-coming of Jesus Christ. Many of the characters in his novels are named after his five biological children. This info found shows why his children support him and why they are all still alive.



So it is obvious, that early on, the two shared different core beliefs, this has changed. We see the change in CD after becoming closer to LVD. remember, he had one wife for 30 years. LVD on the other hand, who at 46 years old, has 4 husbands before CD.

The following bits of info, I believe are very important, imo

  • Zombie - CD believes that a person's spirit can be hijacked by an evil spirit. Then the spirit is in limbo.
  1. CD told LVD that Charles Vallow became Ned Snyder and has now become a zombie, his spirit has been hijacked by an evil spirit. His actual spirit is now in limbo. (Ned Snyder?)
  • CD tells Alex that he was an angel that had come and stopped Laman and Lemuel from hurting Nephi and was now Lori's protector.
  1. Laman and Lemuel are the two eldest sons of Lehi and the older brothers of Sam, Nephi, Jacob and Joseph.
  2. Nephi is one of the central figures described in the Book of Mormon. He was the son of Lehi, a propeht, founder of the Nephite people
  • Alex becomes the "hitman" This is immediately before Charles untimely death.
  • Tammy becomes suspicious of CD and LVD's relationship (aware they are taking trips together) and voices this suspicion so,
  1. CD tells LVD that Tammy has become a Zombie. Her spirit has been hijacked. This is before Tammy's untimely death.
  • Then at some point CD declares Alex, Tylee and Kay are all Zombies.
  1. Tylee disappears,
  2. JJ disappears
  3. Alex dies,
  4. Kay however is still alive.

Recap of their beliefs, imo...

If we take these beliefs, and try to sort them out...
1. You are like/a God.
2. You create the chart of chosen people
3. You decide who should be married
4. You then declare the other spouse/children a zombie
5. Once they are declared... their life no longer matters because their actual spirits are in limbo
5. You then file to receive their life insurance $ (because human greed always has a part to play)
6. The cycle continues.


I write all of this to say.....IMO, killing someone who has become a "Zombie" is not a problem, if your core beliefs are these described above. You are above human/earthly laws and you will be reincarnated anyway. "Death is a non-issue" Which can explain CD and LVD's arrogance and non emotion in regard to any of the missing or those that are deceased. "Their end, justifies their means" Again, all IMO.

I would like to add this scripture, not from the Book of Mormon, but the Bible.

1 John 2:15-16 -
Do not love the world or the things in the world. If anyone loves the world, the love of the Father is not in him, because all that is in the world is the desire of the flesh and the desire of the eyes and the arrogance produced by material possessions.

Obviously, the core beliefs of this family are off the beaten path, but it is these basic scriptural principles that humans generally struggle with and are the root causes of many bad choices and lifelong problems. IMO





Doomsday writer Chad Daybell based characters in his books on his family. Now people are reading them for clues.

Court docs allege Lori Vallow's niece knows location of 2 missing Idaho children

A look at the religious circle surrounding Chad and Lori Daybell | East Idaho News

FOX 13 Investigates: Do Chad Daybell’s books leave clues about missing Rexburg children?

Deaths, divorce papers and the apocalypse: How police reports and 911 calls detail Lori Vallow's life | ktvb.com

Case of missing children tied to doomsday beliefs, 3 deaths

Moroni (Book of Mormon prophet) - Wikipedia

Moloch - Wikipedia

Does Lori Vallow's niece know where missing Idaho kids are?

Lori Daybell's niece knows where JJ and Tylee are, ex-husband claims in court documents | East Idaho News

Lori Vallow: Tracking the Movements of Idaho Mom Now Under Arrest After Her 2 Kids Went Missing

Missing Idaho Kids' Cousin Knows Where They Are But Won't Help, Ex Says

Laman and Lemuel - Wikipedia

Nephi, son of Lehi - Wikipedia
Thank you for taking the time to type this up! It is very informative and insightful, especially for those of us who are not that familiar with the Book of Mormon.
 
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Hi, Sleuthers, I would first like to preface my post by saying that I am by NO means an expert, or professional psychologist. I did have a Masters in Occupational Therapy and worked in that field for 35 years. (retired now). I would say that 25-30% of my practice included involvement in psych issues.

So as I've been reading about Lori's life, and the events and activities that have happened, I kept getting a suspicion of, "that sure sounds like a psychosis behavior", or "is she a sociopath?", or bipolar ?... And it's made me wonder if anyone knew if she had any history of being on any psych meds? I guess it would be very unlikely that anyone here would know.

The other thing this makes me wonder about is, if down the line, we learn the worst :( , then could she use this for an "altered mental status' plea?

And I have no concrete basis for any of this, and this is all just my own opinion, but I wondered if anyone else had picked up on anything like this?
I learned from someone here that there is no insanity plea in IDaho!! Only one of 4 states that do not have it.
 
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I'm sure that's what they mean; and to this extent, I'm quite sure that the National Park Service knows which entrance the Cox/Vallow party took to get into Yellowstone.

WE may not know; I firmly believe that they know.
Just out of ignorance--I ask this question. Is there any way to "sneak" into National Parks like YNP? You know ...like a professional truck driver in a jeep???
 
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I learned from someone here that there is no insanity plea in IDaho!! Only one of 4 states that do not have it.
Oh really! . I wonder if that could be another reason that she doesn't want to go back there! Just wondering...
 
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I have it. It starts with an N. Let me find the news report and I can then say it in the group within guidelines.

Replying to myself but here is information on Lori first husband thats public knowledge.

"Her first marriage was in 1992 to a young man with the last name Nelson. This marriage was right out of high school and both sets of parents paid for the divorce. "

Hahaha my own theory is out window if this is right. (Not the news report I first read but has the same name as I do.)

What is known so far: Tylee Ryan and JJ Vallow
 
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Do we know his plans? I did see something indicating he was moving out of the leased townhouse, but does that mean he's leaving Hawaii? Not knowing exactly what their obligation for the TH is and how to end the lease I wondered if possibly he was ending the lease at the end of the month because staying a day past that obligates him to stay (or at least pay) for the entire month. Maybe he's going to move to a hotel nearer the courthouse or something for the few days between then and Lori's court date.

MOO

That could be. I've considered Chad and Lori both know they're wasting everyone's time fighting this extradition. My theory is he's moving to somewhere he can leave quickly and get back on a plane to the mainland. You suppose he rented a storage unit? Or is mailing boxes back to the mainland somewhere? Jmo
 
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