Apologies.. But I would say, they did set this into motion in the very beginning when they could not find a grandson. MOO
IMO, if my grandson was with his non-blood related stepmother, who had recently abandoned the family for a few months earlier in the year, had potentially been having an affair, and now, had been involved in some way with the death of her husband / my brother, self defense or otherwise, I would be talking very seriously with Lori about the possibility of raising my grandchild, even in the most innocent of circumstances. It is not a stretch to me to see that being in the woodcocks mind. Who wouldn’t at least consider that in similar circumstances?Oh definitely. I don’t think Kay’s interest in JJ had anything to do with the money. But I DO think it’s eye opening to know that Kay “wanted JJ” back in July (ETA: or at least that Lori believed that she did). I think this is important and speaks volumes about Lori’s ensuing actions—moving and not telling the grandparents where they went and either harming or hiding the kids. It’s just another piece of the puzzle. CV also mentioned Lori as being paranoid. I’m sure that plays in as well.
ETA: As you say, Lori is driving this bus. Her paranoia and her callousness are in the driver’s seat. But if in her mind a custody battle was starting back then, even if it wasn’t, I think that’s important to know.
Very well said in my opinion.IMO, if my grandson was with his non-blood related stepmother, who had recently abandoned the family for a few months earlier in the year, had potentially been having an affair, and now, had been involved in some way with the death of her husband / my brother, self defense or otherwise, I would be talking very seriously with Lori about the possibility of raising my grandchild, even in the most innocent of circumstances. It is not a stretch to me to see that being in the woodcocks mind. Who wouldn’t at least consider that in similar circumstances?
Nothing. That is correct. Charles and Lori adopted his sister, Kay’s, grandson.I’m seeing Kay being described as both JJ’s grandmother, and Charles’s sister? What am I missing?
BBMITA, it's true that they asked for a welfare check and that set things into motion. But I don't want any of Lori's defenders to have ammunition against Kay and Larry to blame them for Lori being arrested in Hawaii and held for extradition. Kay and Larry could have done nothing at all after that first welfare check request and the Idaho courts would still be able to charge Lori with what she has currently been charged with. Kay and Larry requesting guardianship was a reaction on their part to the Idaho court order requiring Lori to produce the children. They filed it in anticipation of JJ being located and with the knowledge that he would be placed into foster care unless they acted to request guardianship. Their guardianship filing hasn't triggered anything in regards to Lori's criminal case.
Just for a refresher, Lori's criminal charges:
Desertion and Nonsupport of Dependent Child Under 18 YOA, I18-401(1), Felony on 9/23/2019
Desertion and Nonsupport of Dependent Child Under 18 YOA, I18-401(1), Felony on 9/08/2019
Arrests & Seizures-Resisting or Obstructing Officers, I18-705, Misdemeanor, 11/26/2019
Criminal Solicitation to Commit a Crime, I18-2001 {M}, Misdemeanor, 11/26/2019
Contempt of Court-Criminal-Willful disobedience or court process or order, 18-1801(4), 1/30/2020
All the charges except for that last charge occurred before Kay and Larry filed for guardianship. They made their guardianship filing only one day before Lori defied the court order to produce the kids. However, the results of Lori defying the court order she was served with on Jan 25th would have been the same even if Kay and Larry had not filed for guardianship of JJ on Jan 29th.
MOO
Thank you for saying that, I’ve typed out similar and deleted it before posting several times. I can honestly say I wouldn’t have acted with the grace and dignity that the woodcocks have either if that was my grandchild missing. I’m full of admiration for both of them and I truly hope the children are found safe. JMOIMO, if my grandson was with his non-blood related stepmother, who had recently abandoned the family for a few months earlier in the year, had potentially been having an affair, and now, had been involved in some way with the death of her husband / my brother, self defense or otherwise, I would be talking very seriously with Lori about the possibility of raising my grandchild, even in the most innocent of circumstances. It is not a stretch to me to see that being in the woodcocks mind. Who wouldn’t at least consider that in similar circumstances?
IMO, if my grandson was with his non-blood related stepmother, who had recently abandoned the family for a few months earlier in the year, had potentially been having an affair, and now, had been involved in some way with the death of her husband / my brother, self defense or otherwise, I would be talking very seriously with Lori about the possibility of raising my grandchild, even in the most innocent of circumstances. It is not a stretch to me to see that being in the woodcocks mind. Who wouldn’t at least consider that in similar circumstances?
I found this recent case quite interesting as Edwina Elcox-one of Lori's attorneys-was this defendant's attorney. It involves a missing child and the parent charged with obstruction by lying as to the whereabouts of child. The particulars in this case are not exactly like LV's but... the child was later found, defendant took an Alford plea (I think) and ended up on probation.
https://www.idahostatesman.com/news/local/crime/article233286722.html
"Helmandollar’s attorney, Edwina Elcox, argued that the press releases put out by the Nampa Police Department at the time of the Amber Alert and in the days following deprived her client of the presumption of innocence and his right to a fair trial."
In retrospect, it was a massive run on sentence. Perhaps I should avoid a future writing career.Very well said in my opinion.
Well we can get a sense from this article what strategies will be used as the case moves forward.I found this recent case quite interesting as Edwina Elcox-one of Lori's attorneys-was this defendant's attorney. It involves a missing child and the parent charged with obstruction by lying as to the whereabouts of child. The particulars in this case are not exactly like LV's but... the child was later found, defendant took an Alford plea (I think) and ended up on probation.
https://www.idahostatesman.com/news/local/crime/article233286722.html
"Helmandollar’s attorney, Edwina Elcox, argued that the press releases put out by the Nampa Police Department at the time of the Amber Alert and in the days following deprived her client of the presumption of innocence and his right to a fair trial."
I’m seeing Kay being described as both JJ’s grandmother, and Charles’s sister? What am I missing?
Agreed! That is why I would try to have the conversation, with hopes that perhaps Lori would be open to it. But clearly, legally, I could not force it to happen.BBM. Problem being, she is his adoptive mother. Not his stepmother. The day CV died, her rights trumped all others. Of course, what has transpired since that day, including a possible charge regarding the death of CV, is a whole nother ball of wax. Jmo
Thanks for clarifying. I was missing that he was adapted by Charles. I thought he was Charles son, adopted by Lori.Nothing. That is correct. Charles and Lori adopted his sister, Kay’s, grandson.
Nice find. This is interesting. I’ll add another quote from the article:
“Nampa PD previously reported that when police interviewed Helmandollar during the search for his child, he initially provided false information about the location of his daughter.”
I think the tactics stated here are ones we may see used in this case.
Read more here: https://www.idahostatesman.com/news/local/crime/article233286722.html#storylink=cpy
I don't believe Lori actually thinks it's a custody issue. Regardless, she wouldn't be confused over custody issues for Tylee because there were none. Yet Tylee apparently went missing even before JJ did.I think this is an important comment here. This might explain WHY Lori seems to think it's a custody issue. Man... it would suck to be in her sandals if she got this all wrong from the get-go and ends up in this spot!
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