Hi! I'm a long-time lurker on this forum and have been following the JB case for more than 15 years, but I have never posted. Since reading this topic and all the theories you have posted, I decided to post mine here as well. I apologize beforehand if my English is not perfect, as it is not my native language.

But here it goes.
I am a 100% RDI believer and have always been through all the years I have read about this case and followed here on Websleuths. Please remember that this theory below is just my opinion.
I’d like to put my theory into a story. I hope you have time to read.
I happen to believe that the case itself is actually quite simple. It is us that tend to overthink and complicate things more than needed. And that’s not necessarily a bad thing, as we do have to look at all the details and consider all the facts to get to the right conclusion. But, nevertheless, we should think about what are the things that are worth the time and effort and what are the things that really won’t make any difference in solving this case.
My theory is that the Ramseys went out to dinner that night and arrived home about the same time they said they did. The family probably was excited after the party, and I believe the kids in the car were bubbly and excited about their presents and the upcoming trip. Patsy and John maybe were even a little stressed as they had to get up early in the morning and had things on their minds about all that still had to be done to be prepared. Why do I think that? Because to me it is just simple and logical. As a mother myself, I can easily put myself in that situation, driving home from a Christmas party and having the kids on the backseat of the car all excited and chatty and myself with my husband talking about the details and stuff that has to do with the early morning trip.
So I believe they just drove home like a regular family, and all were up and had things on their minds. It doesn’t really matter if JonBenet had fallen asleep in the car and John walked her upstairs or not. It doesn’t change anything because we already know that JB was up at some point in that night. And we also know that John and Patsy lied about many things, so it wouldn’t matter if they also lied about this or not.
If she was asleep in the car, she might have woken up the moment when John took her in his arms from the car. She might have woken up as they walked to the house. She might have woken up when she was put to bed. She might have woken up when Burke woke her up for whatever reason. She might have slept and woken up on her own at some point later. We do not know that, and as I said, I think this is one thing that we tend to overthink, as in the overall crime itself this does not change anything.
So after arriving at home, Burke wanted to assemble the toy he had gotten for Christmas, as any child would. He probably had that on his mind and was set to do it. Patsy maybe continued to pack up some things to take along for the trip in the morning and was fussing around in the house. I really don’t see John packing or organising for the upcoming trip, so he probably had nothing better to do and went to help Burke with his toy. Why do I think that? Again, because it is simple and logical scenario. If I put myself in that situation where I have a 9-year-old son who really wants to spend some time with his Christmas present, I would let him. And also I wouldn’t have time to argue with him about it being busy myself, so I would just let him do it and maybe even ask my husband to go help him so that he could go to bed soon.
As a quite pedantic mom myself, even I still would have last-minute things to think of and pack up, and I wouldn’t leave them to be done in the early morning hours when everyone is sleepy and we’d have to fuss to get everything in the car and the kids ready to leave. So I have a hard time believing that Patsy had everything planned, packed, and ready to go before they went out for the party that night. Just by knowing how chaotic their house was.
Now about JB. Already up or woken up, she also would be excited about the Christmas presents and was probably playing with something she had gotten for Christmas. I really have a hard time believing that the only gifts JonBenet got that morning were the bike and My Twinn Doll (I know about the jewellery, but I don’t think JB would play with or really care about them that night). Looking at the photos, there are multiple wrapped gifts under the tree in the living room, and I believe there were some more toys for JB and Burke. So I see JonBenet playing with something she had gotten there or from the Whites party, and Burke was playing with his gift he was eager to assemble.
I think that at some point while playing with their toys, one of them yelled for Mom to come and fix them a snack as they were hungry. Maybe Burke asked Patsy, and JonBenet heard it and replyed, “Yeah, me too!” or vice versa. Why? Because I again see that situation as plausible and normal. Maybe Patsy was even in the kitchen at that point packing something up in there, so she grabbed out a bowl of pineapple from the fridge that she had put in there before they left for the Whites. Maybe she even didn’t think about it or register it as she did it; she might just continued with her thoughts on getting things together and placed the bowl on the counter instinctivly and continued on whatever she was doing.
At some point Burke came to the kitchen and saw a bowl of pineaple placed on the counter and asked or shouted for her mom “Is this the snack I can eat?” and Patsy replyed “Yes”. So he got himself a spoon from the kitchen drawer, grabbed the bowl and went to the dining room. I doubt he sat and ate there for a long period of time. I’d rather see him scoop up a few bites and run off to play again. As JB was hungry too she also ran by the dining room and had a bite or two herself using her fingers and also ran off again.
Patsy continued her packing upstairs and did not have her attention to the kids and what they were doing downstairs. Maybe she even asked John to help and carry some bags to the garage to put them ready in the car for the morning drive to the airport. Again, just a simple and logical scenario that I see happening.
I continue on the next post.
