squareandrabbet
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Maybe there was a suspicion that Rachel would be violent if someone tried to take the baby away from her.
Maybe the husband is simply an enabler, and was too worried about invoking Rachel's ire if he tried to stand up to her. I agree it is horrible that Emma had to pay the price for this; but he wouldn't be the first family member of an alcoholic who made this type of decision, to placate the alcoholic before anything else.
It is hard to understand why he wouldn't then attempt to shadow her steps and follow along; however maybe they only had one vehicle. I'm not the least bit surprised that if Rachel knew she was going to an intervention, that she decided to have one last debauch before she gave up; because that is how alcoholics think.
There were clearly a lot of bad decisions made here; but I don't think that some of these decisions are as mysterious and sinister as some are thinking, if one has a little extra knowledge of alcoholism and alcoholic and enablers' behavior. IMO, a bottle was more important to Rachel than her daughter; and avoiding getting Rachel upset, was more important to the husband than taking care of Emma; because it's easier to maneuver around a small baby in time and space, than it is to maneuver around a furious grown adult
. I would at least have considered calling the police for a welfare check, and/or reporting her license plate so she could be pulled over; but maybe there are mitigating circumstances that made this impossible.
JMO, MOO, etc.
Maybe the husband is simply an enabler, and was too worried about invoking Rachel's ire if he tried to stand up to her. I agree it is horrible that Emma had to pay the price for this; but he wouldn't be the first family member of an alcoholic who made this type of decision, to placate the alcoholic before anything else.
It is hard to understand why he wouldn't then attempt to shadow her steps and follow along; however maybe they only had one vehicle. I'm not the least bit surprised that if Rachel knew she was going to an intervention, that she decided to have one last debauch before she gave up; because that is how alcoholics think.
There were clearly a lot of bad decisions made here; but I don't think that some of these decisions are as mysterious and sinister as some are thinking, if one has a little extra knowledge of alcoholism and alcoholic and enablers' behavior. IMO, a bottle was more important to Rachel than her daughter; and avoiding getting Rachel upset, was more important to the husband than taking care of Emma; because it's easier to maneuver around a small baby in time and space, than it is to maneuver around a furious grown adult

JMO, MOO, etc.