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Well, the "official" story aka the Complaint says Chloe asked to be picked up. The unofficial story aka SA's TV interview says he decided to pick her up. Why? Because she couldn't reach the glass at the bottom, something I haven't understood since the beginning. He even said *he* couldn't reach the glass at the bottom so he knew Chloe couldn't either.It's a moot point now, and irrevocable, so I know it doesn't matter anymore, but there's something else that still just disturbs me.
Obviously Chloe did like to bang on the windows at her brother's hockey game. We have seen the picture. As others have mentioned, if she loved banging on windows she could have safely done it on the bottom window while standing, with SA wrapping his arms around her so she didn't run off into the crowds.
But she was a toddler. Everything would interest her for a minute or two or three. Most likely part of the attraction of banging on the windows at her brother's hockey game was to get his attention since she could see him on the ice. Also, it's very difficult to keep a toddler seated during an hours-long game. On a cruise ship, though, there are ten thousand things to do. She could have banged on anything, she could have gazed at anything. If Chloe, as SA stated, "asked" to bang on the glass, he could have wisely decided this wasn't the place for that and distracted her with absolutely anything else. He's the adult. He knows he's on a ship and not a hockey rink. Even while docked, a ship can rock somewhat. Maybe let her bang for three seconds on the bottom window and then move on to anything else.
It's like if she "asked" to go in the pool. He could have sat with her by the side, held her in his lap and let her feet touch the water. Instead, in this analogy, he tossed her alone into the deep end and let her drown.
Maybe he doted on her, liked to spoil her, didn't say "no." Here's where adulthood comes in. If she were excited by cars whizzing down a road, would he have let her run into traffic?
I'm just so angry, frustrated and disgusted because at the very beginning, my heart broke for him. His version of the story sounded like a split-second terrible accident. Now that we have seen the video I'm just so horrified that he still indicates that this is something Chloe wanted to do, and that he had no control over an awful, unforeseen tragic moment.
And yes, absolutely he knew he was on a ship and not at the hockey rink - unless he also has some sort of inability to recall where he is <sarcasm>.
ETA: Just saw @dixiegirl1035's post saying similar. I'm really slow typing my posts...sorry
