Camper
New Member
A note about being the full time and only caregiver, be aware of the results of the labor and sadness that totals major debilitation of your own vitality.
The time will come when you are unable to even leave the house for longer than an hour, to grocery shop or do basic things, when you are the sole caregiver.
I was in the ER six times just prior to my husbands death, and had a second heart surgery 3 weeks after his death. Daily stress works its way into your mind, heart, and body.
FIND help early on, do not suffer through the total care alone. I too cared for my elderly mother, gave up my job to do so. We went down the financial hole for my doing so, again was a prisoner so to speak until my older children came home from school each day so that I could GO to the grocery store, and do errands.
Noble love is wonderful, but reality extracts its price over time.
It has taken several years for me to regain my vigor and life outlook, it is a hard walk to recover from the loss of a loved one.
Further, workers that observe such sadness on a daily basis seeing dozens of people slipping away has to have a more immediate effect and affect their caregiving as well.
No wonder the turnover is so massive. It takes very special dedicated and physically strong people to care for our senior citizens.
After three years I am ready to love, be loved again and cared for, it is now my turn.
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The time will come when you are unable to even leave the house for longer than an hour, to grocery shop or do basic things, when you are the sole caregiver.
I was in the ER six times just prior to my husbands death, and had a second heart surgery 3 weeks after his death. Daily stress works its way into your mind, heart, and body.
FIND help early on, do not suffer through the total care alone. I too cared for my elderly mother, gave up my job to do so. We went down the financial hole for my doing so, again was a prisoner so to speak until my older children came home from school each day so that I could GO to the grocery store, and do errands.
Noble love is wonderful, but reality extracts its price over time.
It has taken several years for me to regain my vigor and life outlook, it is a hard walk to recover from the loss of a loved one.
Further, workers that observe such sadness on a daily basis seeing dozens of people slipping away has to have a more immediate effect and affect their caregiving as well.
No wonder the turnover is so massive. It takes very special dedicated and physically strong people to care for our senior citizens.
After three years I am ready to love, be loved again and cared for, it is now my turn.
.
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