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My husband is a Penn state grad, and he , to this day, states "Joe Pa", knew nothing, and was hoodwinked by Sandusky. So, that is how loyal Penn state alumni are still...
My husband is a Penn state grad, and he , to this day, states "Joe Pa", knew nothing, and was hoodwinked by Sandusky. So, that is how loyal Penn state alumni are still...
I think Joe Pa did "know nothing," just like the bishops who were "loyal" to the church and their own interests. (I'm a Catholic, so understand I am not bashing the Church; I'm critical of it). We are seeing a generational shift in these matters. Paterno's generation came from a time when no one talked about these things. I'm over 60 and can tell you that until the last 20 years, no one talked about this stuff. The past is the past; all we can do is learn from it. We don't have to throw out all the good Paterno has done because he failed in this regard.
I think Joe Pa did "know nothing," just like the bishops who were "loyal" to the church and their own interests. (I'm a Catholic, so understand I am not bashing the Church; I'm critical of it). We are seeing a generational shift in these matters. Paterno's generation came from a time when no one talked about these things. I'm over 60 and can tell you that until the last 20 years, no one talked about this stuff. The past is the past; all we can do is learn from it. We don't have to throw out all the good Paterno has done because he failed in this regard.
My comment was not flippant. I was not arguing that he didn't know (see the quotation marks around "know nothing.") Nor was I defending Paterno. In my own work, I have been a mandated reporter for my whole career. In the post above, I was not speaking of the horror of child sexual abuse; I was trying to put the Paterno story in some historical context--my point being that Paterno is of the same generation as those who covered up abuse in the church. My post was a response to the one above it, about how PSU alumni and others, are in a similar position of denial about Paterno and PSU as Paterno and the bishops/clergy were about the seriousness of sexual abuse. Like many who refused to believe that priests were molesters or who refused to believe that the church would cover it up, there are those who can believe that Sandusky was a monster but Paterno couldn't possibly have known because they believed he was a great man--a man of greatness-- with a sterling reputation.
My point was that we can must acknowledge that Paterno, like Sandusky with The Second Mile, as well as the bishops involved in covering up clergy sex abuse, often did good things for their communities. We can acknowledge how those "good things" made it harder for the truth to come out. We can acknowledge that complexity without ignoring or trivializing the horror of their active abuse or their failure to protect kids. I was arguing against the "either/or" thinking that keeps people trapped in denial while kids are victimized. Abusers and their enablers are often powerful, charismatic people, at least in the world of the kids they abuse. Their very modus operandi is often to groom kids with attention, gifts, kindness, trips, privileges, all things that make kids feel important and grateful. Then there are the abusers who are beloved parents and grandparents, the very people keeping a roof over a kids' head and food on the table. And the other parent can't square up the loving spouse or engaged grandfather with a pedophile rapist. The type of child sex abuser that uses teaching, coaching, Scouts, the church, or dating a single parent to groom kids is often held in high esteem by the community--and this esteem has, in the past, made it hard to some people to report for fear of not being believed.
Abusing kids in any way leaves horrible scars, as anyone who has experienced abuse can attest. Abusers should be punished and kept away from kids; their enablers can expect to have their sterling reputations in tatters. But just as we can't rewrite history and ignore the abuse, we can't rewrite history and ignore the context that allowed it to happen.
you defend your assertion that paterno's aiding & abetting a serial rapist of children should be balanced by his unspecified supposed good works by doubling down and claiming sandusky's "good things " for the community somehow offsets his years of raping children and the destroyed lives of his victims.
And nowhere did I express my own opinion of Paterno, but here goes:
In the case of Paterno, it is difficult to ignore millions of dollars donated to PSU and his charitable work. I'm not talking about football here; in my view, the football culture at PSU was out of control even before we knew about Sandusky and child rape--a case in point being the conventional notion that JP had more power than the university president. Lots of arrogance there. In the first incarnation of this story, I thought it was ludicrous for JP to claim he did his job by just reporting up the chain of command because in every sense that matters, he was not accountable to those people at all. I would like to see the documentation from the civll cases before reaching a decision in my own mind about what JP knew and when he knew it; I haven't seen said documents, and I don't put much stock in simple media reports, as they are often inaccurate. I have rarely agreed with JJ over the years, but I want to see documentation. The civil cases are likely to yield a lot of interesting stuff, if any of it sees the light of day. I've always wondered what, exactly, triggered Sandusky leaving that plum coaching position when he did. It's certainly a possibility that he was forced out for abusing kids but not exposed and thus free to use Second Mile as a tool to recruit victims. And THAT, for sure, would be turning a blind eye to the rape of kids. That, for sure, would be unforgivable. But then, I tend to want to see documents, data, proof before I reach my conclusions.
My husband is a Penn state grad, and he , to this day, states "Joe Pa", knew nothing, and was hoodwinked by Sandusky. So, that is how loyal Penn state alumni are still...
That Joe Paterno felt that just calling Tim Curley and telling that there was a problem was enough and that he "had other things to do," is not admirable, though not criminal. We should expect more from a guy depicted in public art in State College with a halo. We may find out that Paterno's role in covering this up was more involved, and maybe crossed into criminal action. We may find out that Paterno trusted the people he knew to do the right thing didn't do the right thing and that his greatest sin was misplaced trust. He should have done more, and when the final lines are written on this, I will say that I should have done more. I'm willing to hold off on Paterno (while realizing that he could have been a leader in a cover up) until we get more evidence.
(I fully intend to go into why I should have done more when the legal case is under way.)
I am a "mandatory" reporter as well, about child abuse. I have done it several times, and the questions I have been asked, when I called, were more like I was supposed to have the evidence in hand, rather than just reporting something that merits further investigation.
Perhaps they have changed the training for reporting...because, when I have done it, it seemed almost like a waste of time to me, sadly. And, one time, I actually felt attacked for making a report.
Here's what worries me: No matter how much Paterno and others either missed or ignored about Sandusky, the real problem is that the people who should have brought Sandusky and others like him to justice have totally dropped the ball. I'm still waiting for even one other person to be arrested for molesting kids from Second Mile--because these dirtbags don't operate in a vacuum. I think the notpsu blog has done a very good job at digging out some of this stuff, but we get crickets here in PA about pedophile rings. Read that blog. Read this article about the Oakland Child Killer murders. Whatever Paterno did or did not do--he wasn't part of a pedophile ring. Where is the real investigation here?
https://medium.com/@J.Reuben.Appelman/blood-semen-saliva-prints-3fdab84c73d7#.xhxtby47e