Interesting link. The information should be passed to the Crown.
Fwiw, JG kept those letters and pics for his own protection imo. He knew what he was doing was wrong and that it might bite him some day. Jmo.
According to the Huffington Post there were 26 allegations against Ghomeshi.
Of those, the Crown narrowed it down to taking 6 to trial.
2 of those were withdrawn for lack of a reasonable prospect of conviction, 2 of the witnesses in this trial have been thoroughly discredited and only 1 is left in this trial and 1 in a later trial.
Out of 26 allegations, Ghomeshi is down to defending against the 2 left and one of those may be embroiled in a discovery problem.
One wonders if further charges could be brought forward, or would the Crown be reluctant to go down this path again if they lose ?
According to the Huffington Post there were 26 allegations against Ghomeshi.
Of those, the Crown narrowed it down to taking 6 to trial.
2 of those were withdrawn for lack of a reasonable prospect of conviction, 2 of the witnesses in this trial have been thoroughly discredited and only 1 is left in this trial and 1 in a later trial.
Out of 26 allegations, Ghomeshi is down to defending against the 2 left and one of those may be embroiled in a discovery problem.
One wonders if further charges could be brought forward, or would the Crown be reluctant to go down this path again if they lose ?
I’d like to know how Jian Ghomeshi responded to the letters and gifts Lucy DeCoutere sent him.
I read he stopped seeing her and didn’t contact her but they did go on a date together so where are the messages (texts and/or phone calls) Jian sent Lucy? Did Jian call and thank Lucy for the flowers? Did he send her any gifts? Did he reply to Lucy’s email in which she asks him to spend time with her in Banff? They must have exchanged messages so where are Jian’s? He has more information imo. Did he stop seeing Lucy so he could seek out women that would consent to having rough sex with him?
If Jian’s and his partners discussed having rough sex together, wouldn’t he tell them they could physically assault him and do what he did to them? Where is the equality? Was he fair?
In Jian's case, I believe the women were prepared to give him a second chance because his violent behavior was in direct contrast to his on-air, on-screen persona.
I was a Jian fan, I'll admit it. We (and I think I speak for most Canadians and many overseas) felt like we knew the guy. He was sensitive and charismatic and he stood up to the bullying Billy Bob Thornton with such graceful aplomb. He was gentle and seemed genuine. With his on-air guests, he asked the questions we all wanted to ask. We thought we knew him and the kind of guy he was, and we liked him.
When the first accusation against him came out years ago by a wannabe journalist, well, it just smacked of attention-seeking sensationalism and the possible financial gain of hush-money. Even in her account she seemed to encourage him after she sensed something "off". It is a real shame that this account fell on deaf ears because of its 'teen fiction' quality. Of course, later the flood gates opened and her voice was one of many.
Disbelief and heartbreak.
So no, I don't think the victims do believe that they can change the abuser's behavior... - I think they see the behavior as an aberration to the norm -'Jian, the good guy'.
Of course this is just my take on the mindset of the victims (personally I would have run a mile at the first not-so-gentle tug of my hair).
I wonder if Jian sought out men to have rough sex with? If not, why did he always choose women over men?
The woman, who can not be identified, says they had been previously introduced “in passing”, but she didn’t really know him until the festival.
She says he approached her from behind, rested his arms on her shoulders, and when asked by someone how they knew each other, Ghomeshi said “We’re engaged.”
The woman says she went out with him for dinner one night during the festival, and later met him in an isolated part of a nearby park where she says they made out.
She says that at some point, while he was kissing her, she felt his hand and his teeth on her shoulder before his hands moved around her neck.
The complainant says she felt like a switch had happened and Ghomeshi was no longer the same person. When she tried to free herself from his hold, she says he put his hand on her mouth, “sort of smothering” her.
No words were exchanged and the woman says she left the park, got on a cab and went home.
After the alleged incident, the woman says she met Ghomeshi again for dinner and drinks and then they went back to her place for “romantic” interactions.
I wonder if Jian sought out men to have rough sex with? If not, why did he always choose women over men?
The Star reports a male former student at York University came forward with allegations against Ghomeshi from over 25 years ago. Jim Hounslow told the paper Ghomeshi “grabbed my genitals and fondled them” when the ex-CBC host was president of the student federation.
Men saw Ghomeshi as a “douchebag” with an incredible ego, says a male student who knew him at the time: “Maybe we despised him because he figured out how to use feminism to f–k women. It was obvious to many of us that he was strategically using that kind of sensitive, new-age guy, feminist guy. He was playing the role. He really, really needed a lot of attention.”
Student politics can be vicious, and some of his critics joked about creating a mock poster featuring a photograph of Ghomeshi hugging a woman with a smile on his face, Lawson recalls: “The wording on it was going to be, ‘Ever think about sleeping with men?’ ” And at the bottom, it was going to say: ‘Think again.’ ”
I too have wondered where Ghomeshi's texts and emails are. We know that the crown did not have any information about the post-assault correspondence last week, and the defence has no obligation to disclose, so perhaps there is no independent record of the email and text. I suspect that the Crown has been scrambling all weekend to track down the complete conversations so they have something to offer to bolster Lucy's credibility.
Regarding equity in sadism/masochism, not that I know anything about it, isn't it a role play where people have a preferred role of either sadist or masochist? Ghomeshi is the sadist, and it seems that he groomed women to try the masochist role. Some have suggested that although he discussed "rough sex" with women, he did not have a "safe" word. I'm not convinced that the absence of a safe word means that the women did not, in one form or another, consent. I'm getting the impression that although they did consent to try rough sex, none of them were comfortable with their decision once they understood it meant being choked or hit in the head, but at the same time they didn't know how to get around their agreement to try the rough sex.
I would be surprised if the defence introduced email statements where Ghomeshi extracts, perhaps by coercion and manipulation, an agreement to try rough sex, as the coercion probably does look like 'grooming'.