Surviving the 'Murdered Child's Club'
By Ann Hardie, Special to CNN
updated 6:01 AM EDT, Fri October 17, 2014
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http://www.cnn.com/2014/10/17/us/virginia-girl-anniversary-harrington-death/index.html?hpt=hp_c2
Thanx for sharing, neverletgo...
The Murdered Child's Club/The Involuntary Fraternity of the New Life's Normal
Although these clubs have different names, the membership is synonymous in that they are involuntary clubs that none of us ever want to become members of. The member's lives will never be the same as it was the day before their love ones' lives were taken or they simply vanished..
I've attended four CUE missing/murdered person's conferences in the past few years and have listened to hundreds of these parents/families tell their devastating stories, including the Harringtons. They are very genuine, yet have the same tone, appearance, vibe...most are very distant emotionally and physically from each other, and with few exceptions. I've never seen them waiver from that distant vibe.. Very few parents of this club survive their marriages <90% divorce rate>and many of their families also become dysfunctional and simply implode..
The Harringtons; Gil and Dan, have remained strong, and as one, and have continued their very gallant, and persistent journey seeking justice for their precious daughter Morgan, and have been warriors in their valiant attempt to 'Save the next Girl'..
If you attend a missing/murdered persons conference. You will witness up close, the devastation of the families involuntary inducted into the 'Murdered Child's Club or the Fraternity of the New Life's Normal. Whether it's one year, one decade, or even longer. Doesn't matter.. Many parents and family members will go to their own graves still seeking answers...
CUE Center National Missing/Murdered Person Conference-2010 <Gil speaks @ 6 minutes 40 seconds in the candlelight vigil>
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qN878keA6K0
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Roanoke, Virginia (Special to CNN) -- On this day five years ago, Dan and Gil Harrington became members of a club they never wanted to join and one they can never quit.
The dues are more than steep. They are crushing. And yet, membership in this club grows.
The Harringtons belong to the Murdered Child's Club.
That's how they describe it, anyway. Their membership began October 17, 2009, when their daughter, Morgan Dana Harrington, went missing in Charlottesville, Virginia, where she was attending a rock concert on the University of Virginia campus.