There's an aspect of the discussion of a man's size vs. the woman's size and what he "should" be able to do or how he should react which really bothers me.
In many contexts I feel like it's furthering the notion that men can't be victimized by women or should take more responsibility/action against the violence.
I don't necessarily think that most of this is intentional but instead is part of our societal mindset and we have to work to fight this otherwise we're going to continue expecting males to "overcome" violent acts perpetrated against them, which is unfair and absurd. kwim?
Oh my I just perpetuated your post. And you are right it is so easy to stereotype! I guess it is ingrained in our heads from the time we are little of how men and women "should" behave.