Jodi Arias TAKES THE STAND #33 *may contain graphic and adult content*

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I, too, agree. I most definitely heard her test-a-lie that Ester brought the astro over and left it. They used what was left then JA went and bought KY.

who is Ester???
 
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Yesterday my daughter was on fb and she saw someone had posted that the account of JA's attack of her father and the alleged attack of TA on her were nearly word for word in transcripts sorry i donot have link to the fb posting, and im wondering if this true?
 
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Court is on!
Unsealed!
 
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Awww, the phone sex! I missed it! Damn. Does anyone have a quick link?

It wasnt awwwww phone sex, it was more Oh! Oh! Oh!
 
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I am listening to her testilie at the end of the day yesterday. She is talking about how she called her mom for help. Nurmi is trying to draggggggggg it out of her of why she wanted to move out of Mesa and what was so miserable about her life.
She's already claiming it's self defense, what is her angle on this act of minimizing it? Is the DV expert they are calling going to address this in some way? I just don't understand why he has to pull stuff out of her.
Even the hitting, if it even happened, which I doubt, she tries to minimize it by saying, no he didn't hit me in the face. Even if she's lying, why minimize the lie? I don't get it at all *sigh*
How many more days of this do we have to listen to?

however, defense didn't want her to say he didn't hit her face---she blew it----bit them in the a$$ (as defense is so fond of say)
 
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Nothing can make me cry faster than seeing genuine tears from a man.

Me too... I can handle just about anything... but when a man cries or gets tears in his eyes... even in the movies... I lose it.
 
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hearing open to us yea
 
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Judge has UNSEALED THIS MORNING'S HEARINGS. on soon,
 
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Am I the only one surprised that they haven't shown any text messages? Remember the big stink that the defense made about the Mesa PD tech not taking pictures of the text messages, because there was no software back in 2008 that could grab the info off the phone? But they were able to do it in 2010 or sometime since then. I thought for sure we would see some of these messages.
 
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The judge unsealed the hearing that is about to happened. Turn on your feeds!
 
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Can someone give the azfamily link?
 
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Personally I think it's an act for the jury, to show how subservient she is to men.
Or part of her appearance as an abuse victim. Years out of my relationship I still apologize for the silliest and smallest things out of my control - like sneezing or dropping something. My husband and I have joked that he should record 'DON'T apologize' on a loop because he says it so often. ;)

But it could also easily be a personal character trait or something instilled in her by her upbringing.

Physiologists believe that there may be several reasons why some people over apologize. Those could include but not limited to:

Children whose parents teach them that apologizing is a form of politeness. Sometimes, this happens just by witnessing a parent say “sorry” too much to others. Apologies are like smiles to these folks.
Victims of abuse (emotional, physical, or otherwise) tend to over apologize out of guilt from past traumatic experiences or fear of making others angry.
Another big reason is the fear of conflict, especially women. Women apologize more inappropriately. Psychologist Engel states, “Girls are raised with an emphasis on kindness and keeping the peace, more than males. “Boys are given much more permission to express their anger and are usually not expected to be as polite and well-mannered.” Likewise, women are also more likely to blame themselves for arguments and bad situations than men.
Lack of self –esteem is another reason some people over apologize. They feel they are not as valuable as other people or as important, smart. People who are also intimidated by those in authority and want everyone to like them often say sorry for everything. These individuals can sometimes even be overly sensitive and using an apology seems to make things more acceptable in their own eyes.
http://jasminvkelly.wordpress.com/2012/10/12/stop-over-apologizing/
 
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Let's remember, even though Nurmi is being paid by the State to lead her case, Jodi is the one in charge. Nurmi has to tell her what he thinks is best, but in the end, he can't do anything if Jodi says a firm "no" to his recommendations.

Thinking about yesterday's kerfuffle, it could be that Jodi actually went at it with Nurmi concerning the tapes. Which one was on which side, I can't fathom a guess.
 
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Prosecutorial misconduct hearing open to public
get your feeds going sleuthers!!!!
 
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he said, in one of the interviews, that Jodi asked him not to! :lol:

(and also gave him "messages" to pass on to the world via the Dr. Drew show!)

:floorlaugh::floorlaugh::floorlaugh: Poor dude. :desert:
 
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Nurmi: .Ok. Now . . . .uh. . . . at this . . . uh. . . .point in time. . . . uh. . . .aaaaaannnnnnnddddd uhh. . .
With . . . .uh . . . . . reference to the . . . . . uh. . . . . . there seemed. . . . . . . . to be. . . . . .
Uh. . . . so to speak. . . . . . . . uhhhh lots of . . . . . . . sexual activity. . . . . . . . uhhhhhhh
Aaaaaaaaaaannnnnnnnnnnddddddddd uh. . . . . . uh………..uhhh what . . . . uhhhhhhhh . . . . .I mean. . . . .what did you. . . . . . . .uhhhhhhhhh feel. . . . . . . . .when . . . . . . uhhhh . . . .Mr. uhhhhhhhh Alexander
Uhhhhhhhhhhhh grabbed you . . . . .by…… by. . . . uhhhhh…… your. . . . . . uhhhh . . . .wrists?

ARIAS: Well, .. . . . as can readily be ascertained by any 3rd party observer who has measured the response and reaction times of those kind of individuals who have found themselves in precarious situations which almost always invite some sort of imminent attack – so to speak ….it is not at all difficult to replicate these physiological eruptions. And since I was a member of that particular coterie that is being carefully studied for heart rhythm and pulse amplitude I realized that a shock wave emanated from the extremity that was my wrist and this nerve discomfort was transported up through my neck region so as to result in a kind of discomfiture that resided somewhere in my head region. But because I had found myself to be largely unconscious I had to sort of "come to" - by that I would mean - when my mind had finally regained a full panoply of consciousness I estimated the noisome stimuli that my head felt was truly real. But I'm not quite sure about that last part.

:floorlaugh::floorlaugh::floorlaugh:

Oh sorry I forgot the question
 
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Me too... I can handle just about anything... but when a man cries or gets tears in his eyes... even in the movies... I lose it.

my daughter said that about her dad when he cried over our dog we put down this last summer-=--him and her have a deep deep love of the goldens.......miss her
 
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