ynotdivein
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Casey from all accountss seemed quite socialable. I though anyone affected by asperger's syndrome's is anti-social.
I don't think of "brain development" as being related to Casey's intelligence. I think it's possible that AF is referring to a possible brain anomaly like Asperger's or Fetal Alcohol Syndrome. jmo
I have to step out here for a bit but I really want to poke around in Danziger and Weitz's threads and review their studies. Something is telling me that AF may be referencing that her brain development was normal intellectually, but physiologically diferent in some way that impacted processing of emotions or recognizing risky behavior? :waitasec:
My son has full custody of the children, but the NARC continues to haunt us. She didn't want the children & gave them up willingly about 2 years ago.
The children refuse to visit with her, so she has now started another court proceeding, trying to get visitation.
The judge ordered a psychological eval on her & so far, the PHD doing the eval, sees what she is & will likely be denied any visitation at all.
We do not see her or talk to her. She is CRAZY and like most narcissists, blames my son for everything & also wants revenge on him.
She's getting it, he is financially ruined with all the legal fees.
This makes her HAPPY even though all his financial problems, affect the children & limit what they can do (activities) and any other need they may have.
We're hoping (finally) that the courts decision will finally STOP her, but who knows.
Narcissists will not be denied what they want & right now she will not accept that the kids absolutely HATE her. She is determined to FORCE them to see her (not going to happen) but in her mind, she is not the problem.
IF the court decides she cannot see them, we plan to move to another state to get away from her. Sad, isn't it, but that is what we have decided is our only course of action, since she is relentless.
She's also an alcohlic, like many narcissists, they have addictive personalities & turn to alcohol & drugs.
They are very dangerous, so be careful if either of these people are still in your life in any way. They are also stalkers, but seems you found that out already.
Seperating from them can be dangerous, so watch your back.
I just want to add something about brain development. It has been proven that the brain is not fully developed at the age of 20 and it takes a few more years to do that. Meaning that teenagers and young adults DO NOT consider the ramifications of their actions. An e.g. of that is a young man who went to jail for some 15 years for killing his girlfriend's father (who she said was sexually abusing her - which was untrue). The young man, who is now a lawyer, said he NEVER once considered the ramifications when he waited for the father outside of his house and shot him dead. I think that is extremely important. Anyone who has children will understand that when they have to tell a teenager over and over again, think about what you are doing. And they never seem to. Having said all that, I think she is a sociopath and as this trial has gotten underway and I have watched practically evertything, I believe in my heart that Cindy and George have had a monumental lapse in their parenting to the point of the detriment of KC. E.g. letting her steal upwards of 3000 a month starting (that I know of) in January 2008, for two months and then several hundred for months after. Letting her do this, but be home on time with the baby. LEtting her lie about going to work, but be home on time with the baby. We all know she was staying atj Ricardo's some five days a week for a few months starting in Feb. 2008. Cindy lied about this. I believe Ricardo. So stay out five nights a week, rob me blind, lie about work, BUT TAKE GOOD CARE OF THE BABY. This in no way excuses the crime. She is a sociopath and I believe the time to fix that is over. But this is not a death penalty case. It is a lwop case., imo. And if she were to get off, I am going to say, there is a possibility she could do it again, if she felt she needed to and got awy with this. But I believe wholeheartedly that Cindy bears responsibility for this coming to pass. Children are not born knowing the right thing. They are taught it and she was allowed to lie, steal, to an incredible magnitude and leave havoc in her way. No one reined her in. It is extremely sad on all fronts. I cannot imagine how George and Cindy are going to react to being accused of everything under the sun. They are gong to be. No doubt. But it appears that they are denying sexual abuse. So they are not willing to go that far for her. Things could change dramatically when George gets up there on the stand.
MOO- 21 years in pediatrics tells me LA has asperger's with almost certainty. My dad has it
and graduated from GA TECH
It's more of a social disorder than intelligence.
ICA runs more in the spectrum of high functioning autism.BUT I can only base my opinion on what I have witnessed on TV.
I. see ZERO indication of fetal alcohol syndrome. GOOGLE IT! ICA looks NOTHING like FAS.
JMOO!
It's not that they are anti-social,they just don't always have the typical social skills. Asperger's is on the Autism spectrum and there are varying degrees .
SOME people with Asperger's don't "read" social cues the way most people do. They may appear rude or uncaring because they don't process other peoples reactions . Some of their responses to situations can appear inappropriate,like laughing during a serious situation.
Interesting. Do you still talk/see to your DIL? How does one separate from someone like this? Who protects the kids if this is not a recognized mental health disorder?
I've met two in my life. One was a boss- finally had to quit to regain some control- other was a friend I ended up changing phone numbers and hoping for the best.
It has been my impression throughout the jury selection so far that the elaboration on the mitigating factors were more to plant seeds of possibility in these jurors minds. Of course, I understand they have to discuss the possible mitigating factors, but JB has pointed out that this is their only chance to talk to these jurors 1:1, and the way these possible mitigating factors have been brought up is very interesting. In the ones I have heard, she has started with age... whether someone thinks her age should be a mitigating factor or not, there is no question that she WAS young. Then they bring up lack of maturity, which, even if no one ever mentions the word "immature" in the entire trial, that will be obvious even to someone who might want to acquit. Then after some discussion they bring up other possible mitigating factors: impulse control problems, abuse, and things about brain disorders. It made me wonder if they have no intention of attempting to prove ANY of these, but they list them as possibilities right after her age, which is not disputable and her immaturity which is virtually indisputable, in the hopes that some jurors may be influenced to believe the other factors were true too.
I don't think she had a brain disorder, and I don't think they will try to prove she did. I think they will just let this possibility linger in the minds of these jurors, in the hopes that it might make a difference.