Kyron Horman's mom's civil suit against Terri Horman

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  • #181
If there was a chance that someone who worked at the school grabbed Kyron, then why isn't Terri suing the school and Multnomah County? She's had plenty of time to do it, and she's got a good attorney.

My opinion - because she knows what happened to Kyron.

Desiree isn't doing any of this for Kaine or just to get back at Terri. It's to get her little boy back, one way or another.



Desiree can say anything she wants to say. It's a free country and she is a grieving mother. If Terri doesn't like what Desiree is saying, then let her answer all the questions right down the line. JMOO

But I bet she won't. Same reason she won't fight for her little daughter - she will incriminate herself, and she knows it. The court filings basically spell that out if you go and read them. She refuses to talk to a court-appointed psychologist and do what is necessary to get to see her daughter again because it might be used against her in future proceedings. Her lawyer wrote that - it's not just snark or made up.

There are PLENTY of people convicted, locked up, and they never think to sue anyone else even though they are completely innocent.

Terri is weird, who knows what she's hiding, but I don't think it logically follows that she's guilty of harming Kyron. This case has never made one iota of sense to me, she had access to that child 24/7, why take him to a very public place and then remove him there when the place was crawling with people who would recognize and remember her behavior.

Makes so little sense.

I do agree that Desiree's motives here are pure - she's always done anything she can think of to find out where Kyron is - I just don't think this will lead her closer to that answer.
 
  • #182
If Terri took him she might have counted on the crowds providing cover and distraction and more readily available suspects. With any luck there could be someone's creepy grandpa with a history or failing that it could be speculated that a stranger saw his chance and took Kyron. If Kyron disappeared from home when they were both alone there she would be the obvious suspect.

I don't know what Terri would sue LE or the school for. AFAIK the school or LE haven't defamed her and as she is not Kyron's legal guardian it's not her place to sue on behalf of Kyron either.
 
  • #183
Donjeta, I don't post my imaginary scenarios of how crimes could work out - because I don't want to give anyone any ideas, but I think all of us here sometimes come up with things that would WORK in a murder. This scenario is about the worst thing I've ever heard. Show up with the child, in a place where there is typically a lot of vigilant security and watchful eyes, and do it on a day where lots of people who know you will be milling around with cameras, and then kidnap the child right before their very eyes.

It just is so COMPLETELY illogical to me, as an active PTA mom myself, to imagine in my wildest dreams I could enter a school with my child and EXIT with him again as school was starting and no one would notice, on a day when lots of parents were there to socialize and take photos. That she did make it out of the school with no one noticing her really kind of defies logic and defies my experience with schools. I don't think for a minute I could achieve that, with NO ONE saying they saw me leave the school as school was beginning. Especially if I planned to remove my child with me - that's the double whammy - I think the odds approach zero I could walk out of the school and into my car with my school age child at the start of the day. I would be seen, and remembered. For her to gamble on being able to do that - and having it work out - defy the odds. Doesn't make for a good game plan.
 
  • #184
Hey folks! :seeya:

Let's get back on topic of the court case here. Use the general discussion thread to talk about other stuff.

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  • #185
ohhhhh, I hope we get to read thoes nasty emails that TH sent about Kyron and who she sent them too. Really TH, you hated a little kid? What is wrong with you????????????:banghead:

I won't know how nasty these emails were until I read them. I tend not to convict or believe until I have evidence in front of me.

In my own OPINION, there was a LOT more going on here, with more people than TH, to be satisfied with innuendo and gossip. Even my best friend, the Church Lady, who moved to Portland knows there is a REAL seamy side to that place.
 
  • #186
there were some tweets about why underhill was on the steps with the crowd with DY; all that addressed it said the same thing. Here's one reporter's tweet:

"Incoming Mult. Co DA Rod Underhill was among those watching Desiree Young press conference. He too waited in line for a copy of lawsuit."

http://twitter.com/#!/kyleiboshi


Thanks for the link to Kyle's tweeter; here's what I saw when I clicked thru just now.

Kyle Iboshi is a general assignment reporter with KGW, the NBC affiliate in Portland, Oregon.

Tweets
26m ‏@KyleIboshi

Defense attorney representing Terri Horman says only comments about newly filed civil lawsuit will come in court. Declined interviews...


So Houze isn't going to throw us public a bone either.
 
  • #187
Donjeta, I don't post my imaginary scenarios of how crimes could work out - because I don't want to give anyone any ideas, but I think all of us here sometimes come up with things that would WORK in a murder. This scenario is about the worst thing I've ever heard. Show up with the child, in a place where there is typically a lot of vigilant security and watchful eyes, and do it on a day where lots of people who know you will be milling around with cameras, and then kidnap the child right before their very eyes.

It just is so COMPLETELY illogical to me, as an active PTA mom myself, to imagine in my wildest dreams I could enter a school with my child and EXIT with him again as school was starting and no one would notice, on a day when lots of parents were there to socialize and take photos. That she did make it out of the school with no one noticing her really kind of defies logic and defies my experience with schools. I don't think for a minute I could achieve that, with NO ONE saying they saw me leave the school as school was beginning. Especially if I planned to remove my child with me - that's the double whammy - I think the odds approach zero I could walk out of the school and into my car with my school age child at the start of the day. I would be seen, and remembered. For her to gamble on being able to do that - and having it work out - defy the odds. Doesn't make for a good game plan.

Whoever kidnapped him did so in just this scenario.
 
  • #188
The lawyers have no more idea than we do what the evidence actually is. LE has evidence that has made them certain of her guilt, and we don't know what that evidence is. Desiree and Kaine have seen evidence we haven't seen, and it has made them certain. Desiree's lawyer wants to subpoena more information, Kaine has just said more friends have given information that adds more pieces to the puzzle.... so this attorney is only talking about what has been released publicly. I'm not worried about that part.




But what earthly good would that do? Desiree was very clear: she does not want Terri's money - she wants Terri to tell her where Kyron is. What good would suing the school do? The school doesn't know where his body is. This isn't about the money except - as they clearly stated - to stick Terri Horman in a bad place, with the intent to get information from her.

I'm not even sure why they're talking about suing Skyline when they've been clear that this is not a financial issue, but one of compelling Terri Horman to give them their son (or his remains) back. Skyline has nothing to do with that.
they do? then how come they have not arrested her? charged her with anything?

I am not one of the Terry is guilty crowd either. Why are these friends just now coming forward to give new info? As for the school, Ms Porter should answer for her lax attitude about where was Kyron after the SF tour, In the bathroom...a drink of water...???

I too question why friends have come forward sooner...some thing is sketchy with that.
 
  • #189
Whoever kidnapped him did so in just this scenario.

No, they didn't. It's likely that whoever kidnapped him wasn't easily recognizable to the teachers and students - they could easily come and go with no one making a mental note of who they were. With Terri, pretty much anyone who saw her knew her there, and then could remember that evening they saw her leaving with him.

Not so someone they don't know, who may have been pushing a large wheeled garbage can or footlocker. Not memorable.
 
  • #190
No, they didn't. It's likely that whoever kidnapped him wasn't easily recognizable to the teachers and students - they could easily come and go with no one making a mental note of who they were. With Terri, pretty much anyone who saw her knew her there, and then could remember that evening they saw her leaving with him.

Not so someone they don't know, who may have been pushing a large wheeled garbage can or footlocker. Not memorable.

I disagree. A small school, little kids, intensive questioning after the fact by LE with lists made of every single person people saw, people knew and didn't know in the school and outside the school, inside the parking lot INCLUDING cars and which spots they were parked, review of all the pictures people took? And Terri last saw Kyron NOT in the science fair area but upstairs in the hallway steps from his classroom after the fair. Where a stranger pushing a child-sized bin or footlocker would have stood out like a sore thumb, but whom we've never heard a peep about.

Also, you're right in that anyone who saw Terri knew her. Which is why, after questioning everyone at the elementary school, it's interesting that the only picture LE released was of Terri and her truck. With the request that anyone who saw Terri (not a mystery person) should contact LE immediately. And anyone parked in the parking lot near Terri should contact LE immediately. And anyone who drove on the roads after the abduction and saw someone who looked like Terri, or who drove her truck, should contact LE. And why Desiree accidentally slipped and mentioned that someone saw Kyron getting into Terri's truck -- before Kaine stopped her at the press conference and said there were things they just couldn't share yet.

Yeah - Terri was seen at the science fair, repeatedly, as Kyron's stepmother, which is why people didn't care that they saw her or raise any alarms at the time. A stranger wheeling a footlocker hours before a report of a young boy disappearing from the hallway would have been pretty remarkably memorable. It's weird that no one saw them.
 
  • #191
Whoever kidnapped him did so in just this scenario.

Great point! I agree. As a mom who volunteered in the classroom, and as a former school employee, a face you've never seen before would stand out far more than a parent you see regularly. Even more so on a day where parents and family are visiting the school, as the other parents and staff seek out new faces for introductions, etc. And if that stranger in the school was pushing something large around, he/she'd be an even larger target for scrutiny.

Also, from following this case, I don't think "logical" is a word that comes to mind re: Terri and her actions. (said in reference to the "illogical" post.). Her sexting while under police scrutiny but one example.

I'm glad Desiree is pursuing this. Her strength, restraint, and persistence is amazing. Hopefully more information will be uncovered during this trial that will lead to answers about Kyron's fate, he'll be found, and justice will be meted out.

Moo
 
  • #192
I disagree. A small school, little kids, intensive questioning after the fact by LE with lists made of every single person people saw, people knew and didn't know in the school and outside the school, inside the parking lot INCLUDING cars and which spots they were parked, review of all the pictures people took? And Terri last saw Kyron NOT in the science fair area but upstairs in the hallway steps from his classroom after the fair. Where a stranger pushing a child-sized bin or footlocker would have stood out like a sore thumb, but whom we've never heard a peep about.

Also, you're right in that anyone who saw Terri knew her. Which is why, after questioning everyone at the elementary school, it's interesting that the only picture LE released was of Terri and her truck. With the request that anyone who saw Terri (not a mystery person) should contact LE immediately. And anyone parked in the parking lot near Terri should contact LE immediately. And anyone who drove on the roads after the abduction and saw someone who looked like Terri, or who drove her truck, should contact LE. And why Desiree accidentally slipped and mentioned that someone saw Kyron getting into Terri's truck -- before Kaine stopped her at the press conference and said there were things they just couldn't share yet.

Yeah - Terri was seen at the science fair, repeatedly, as Kyron's stepmother, which is why people didn't care that they saw her or raise any alarms at the time. A stranger wheeling a footlocker hours before a report of a young boy disappearing from the hallway would have been pretty remarkably memorable. It's weird that no one saw them.

I personally, would not be able to recall that at all, if I saw someone custodial looking pushing a wheeling garbage can. It would not enter my conscious mind, it's such a common (and uninteresting) ocurrance.
 
  • #193
I personally, would not be able to recall that at all, if I saw someone custodial looking pushing a wheeling garbage can. It would not enter my conscious mind, it's such a common (and uninteresting) ocurrance.

But a parent accompanying their child is noticeable and memorable? Well, good thing there were hundreds of people to interview about whether they saw a stranger pushing a child sized footlocker down the hall the hall the morning a child was abducted.
 
  • #194
I disagree. A small school, little kids, intensive questioning after the fact by LE with lists made of every single person people saw, people knew and didn't know in the school and outside the school, inside the parking lot INCLUDING cars and which spots they were parked, review of all the pictures people took? And Terri last saw Kyron NOT in the science fair area but upstairs in the hallway steps from his classroom after the fair. Where a stranger pushing a child-sized bin or footlocker would have stood out like a sore thumb, but whom we've never heard a peep about.

Also, you're right in that anyone who saw Terri knew her. Which is why, after questioning everyone at the elementary school, it's interesting that the only picture LE released was of Terri and her truck. With the request that anyone who saw Terri (not a mystery person) should contact LE immediately. And anyone parked in the parking lot near Terri should contact LE immediately. And anyone who drove on the roads after the abduction and saw someone who looked like Terri, or who drove her truck, should contact LE. And why Desiree accidentally slipped and mentioned that someone saw Kyron getting into Terri's truck -- before Kaine stopped her at the press conference and said there were things they just couldn't share yet.

Yeah - Terri was seen at the science fair, repeatedly, as Kyron's stepmother, which is why people didn't care that they saw her or raise any alarms at the time. A stranger wheeling a footlocker hours before a report of a young boy disappearing from the hallway would have been pretty remarkably memorable. It's weird that no one saw them.
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  • #195
Thanks for your post joshiesmom. Local perspective is most valued and especially relevant.

I do wonder what Kaine meant when he said gloves were off. His present estrangement from Desiree could perhaps complicate the situation. I only hope Desiree the best of luck in her venture. That said, I'm reminded of the saying "be careful what you ask for".


Disclosure will be very interesting for all involved. I assume Kaine also has an attorney on retainer.

Kaine does have an attorney, whom he has already used for other proceedings.

I agree about skeletons, but would like to think that the importance of finding Kyron is more important to them than airing out dirty laundry.

I hope that the publicity and pressure that this brings may bring the right tips- in a similar way that Etan Patz's search brought in tips.

Hoping for answers, peace and truth for both cases.
 
  • #196
Question:

Do you guys think she will testify, or just let it go and let whatever happens happen?

She gave up her own toddler daughter rather than testify. She won't say one word.

I think she filed to get in under the deadline (Monday) but everyone knows that it will continue to be put off, just like the divorce, until something else happens. No judge is going to force this forward while the possibility of criminal charges against Terri are out there.

Just like ZFG's suit against Casey. And if Terri were ever found guilty, it would take even longer b/c of the appeals.

I don't think this will change anything, sadly.

It's different than a divorce. Since there are no criminal charges pending, there is no reason for the court to delay this matter. Terri can plead the fifth but this trial will go forward if not dismissed via a summary judgment motion or other mechanism. (It's been a while since I've done civil litigation and I can't remember the different ways to get a civil case dismissed).


The stark language of this lawsuit is somehow very moving.

It IS a fishing expedition and a pressure tactic, as they explicitly said during the press conference. They are "fishing" for evidence, and they are putting pressure on Terri in every way possible to compel her to speak.

The worst that happens is actually that Kyron's case gets attention, which is excellent since he's still a missing person and a lot of time has passed. So this is a small win/big win scenario.

LE does have proof that satisfies them and the family that Terri was responsible. Proof that points to the murderer and proof that can prosecute Terri of murder in the absence of a body are slightly different -just like in the Scott Peterson case. I remember how blown away I was when I realized the extent of evidence LE had against Scott and how they had to sit on it until Laci's body was found. I'm sure this is the same. When both LE and the family saw the evidence they were satisfied that Terri was guilty and are now focused on finding his remains (probably) so the case can move forward.

Even the small amount of evidence they've released to the public has been pretty shocking - at least to me -about Terri's state of mind and behavior as a parent. I do hope this civil case allows the family to see more of the evidence LE has been sitting on.

Excellent post. Thank you.

It's never clear to me, in situations like this, how plaintiffs can afford the legal costs. I was falsely arrested, and had a tiny little misdemeanor charge, and it cost me $5000 to pay the defense atty. That was just for a plea deal. I really wanted to fight to prove my innocence, for my peace of mind, (the charges weren't serious enough to jeopardize job applications or criminal background checks etc. So, I wasn't concerned about it effecting my future) but I couldn't justify the additional cost so that I would feel vindicated. In the end, I took the deal to save money. The money isn't just mine, it's my husband's nd kids too.

Additionally, when my grandmother became mentally incapacitated, she got really angry with us in her confusion, and as a result of things she said, her neighbors rallied around her, helped her hire an attorney, and my mother had to fight in court for legal guardianship. My mother won it, but my grandmother spent $30,000 fighting it. (thanks to he helpful neighbors who ultimately accomplished nothing but draining y grandma's savings.)

My point is that these were small cases, that did not require the same number of hours of prep and time that a case like this one will. We know that, even if Desiree wins, Terri doesn't have the money to pay $10,000,000. How can Desiree afford this? I'm glad she's doing it. I just always wonder about that in cases like this. Where does the money come from? How does the atty get paid? Kyron's disappearance has gotten huge media attention, so an attorney might do it at a discount sort of in exchange for promiting his services.

What would a lawsuit like this cost?

I know we've all wondered the same thing about Terri's atty.

Thanks!


My feeling is that Desiree will be responsible for costs, like court reporter fees for depositions, subpoena fees, etc. But I think her attorney is probably working on a contingency basis, meaning he won't get paid unless she recovers a money judgment (which means he is likely working for free). An attorney would do that if they feel it is a worthwhile case for a worthwhile cause and/or for publicity.

I have a question to anyone who might know the answer. If Desiree wins the lawsuit and Terri can't pay, would she go to jail?

No. We don't have debtor prisons anymore.

For me, all you need to know is that a mother has not seen her toddler, now preschooler, in two years because to do so she'd have to waive her 5th amendment rights. There is just no reasonable explanation for that I can think of. Granted, it's just me, but I can't imagine not seeing my beloved baby girl for not.even.one.second in TWO YEARS. Honestly, I think most mothers would voluntarily go to prison for a period of time than do that.

This is the main reason I am convinced of her guilt. I'm a family law attorney. I know how people fight for their kids, usually because they love their kids so much but also sometimes just to hurt the other side, or just because they don't want the other party to win, or even when it destroys their children. People as involved in their child's life as Terri was, rarely simply give up.

And she did fight. She paid a lot of money to an attorney to fight for her. But when it came down to the possibility of incriminating herself, her love for her baby dried up.

Totally agree. If there was proof at this point she would be charged. I may have missed something but I don't believe LE has ever come out and indicated the believe she is responsible either. I think the only person who has done that is DY but I don't think she has shown any real evidence to back up her claims.

Doubt the lawsuit will be allowed to go forward at this time. Or if it does it will be dismissed at some point. If you're going to accuse someone and sue then you'd better have some evidence, which I don't believe they have. All the threats to bring in TH's friends and add additional people to the lawsuit are just that, threats. Meant to scare and intimidate. They will either need to prove what they are asserting or the case will be dismissed.

I see this statement a lot: "If there was proof, there would be charges." That's a huge misconception. Proof that a person was involved in criminal activity is not the same as enough evidence that the state feels comfortable taking the case to a jury. We know there is proof in this case that Terri is involved in Kyron's disappearance. We have seen a lot of that proof. For example, her inexplicable meandering drive on quiet back country roads on the very day Kyron went missing, soon after dropping him off, with her sick baby in the car. The fact that apparently, she was the last person to actually see Kyron that we know of for sure. Her hatred of him and desire to have him be sent to Desiree, etc., etc. But none of that is likely enough proof to take this case to trial. So proof and enough proof for a trial are two different things.

they do? then how come they have not arrested her? charged her with anything?

I too question why friends have come forward sooner...some thing is sketchy with that.

See above.

Let me add that once a defendant is charged with murder, the clock starts ticking on speedy trial rights, etc. The state is locked in. But there is no statute of limitations on murder so until they have what they feel is a strong enough case, even if the investigators know, based on the evidence they have seen and their investigative instincts, common sense, etc., they will not charge a suspect unless they feel they have a strong chance of securing a conviction.

I firmly believe that LE has probable cause to arrest Terri Horman. But, i don't think they have enough evidence yet to sustain a conviction for first degree murder. They really need Kyron's body or one more piece of the puzzle that will nail her, IMO.

This lawsuit is a means of putting on the pressure, keeping the public interested in the case and hopefully gaining even a bit more evidence.

Remember, it took 3 years before Jason Young was arrested for his wife's murder. They had evidence, they had proof and they had probable cause. They just needed time to make a strong case. The same thing could be happening here.
 
  • #197
I see this statement a lot: "If there was proof, there would be charges." That's a huge misconception. Proof that a person was involved in criminal activity is not the same as enough evidence that the state feels comfortable taking the case to a jury. We know there is proof in this case that Terri is involved in Kyron's disappearance. We have seen a lot of that proof. For example, her inexplicable meandering drive on quiet back country roads on the very day Kyron went missing, soon after dropping him off, with her sick baby in the car. The fact that apparently, she was the last person to actually see Kyron that we know of for sure. Her hatred of him and desire to have him be sent to Desiree, etc., etc. But none of that is likely enough proof to take this case to trial. So proof and enough proof for a trial are two different things.

And another thing to consider is, charge her for what? If they charge her for something minor that they can prove without finding Kyron double jeopardy might mean they couldn't charge her for murder if they found his body and the evidence pointed in that direction.
 
  • #198
I see this statement a lot: "If there was proof, there would be charges." That's a huge misconception. Proof that a person was involved in criminal activity is not the same as enough evidence that the state feels comfortable taking the case to a jury. We know there is proof in this case that Terri is involved in Kyron's disappearance. We have seen a lot of that proof. For example, her inexplicable meandering drive on quiet back country roads on the very day Kyron went missing, soon after dropping him off, with her sick baby in the car. The fact that apparently, she was the last person to actually see Kyron that we know of for sure. Her hatred of him and desire to have him be sent to Desiree, etc., etc. But none of that is likely enough proof to take this case to trial. So proof and enough proof for a trial are two different things.

... (respectfully snipped by me)...

Let me add that once a defendant is charged with murder, the clock starts ticking on speedy trial rights, etc. The state is locked in. But there is no statute of limitations on murder so until they have what they feel is a strong enough case, even if the investigators know, based on the evidence they have seen and their investigative instincts, common sense, etc., they will not charge a suspect unless they feel they have a strong chance of securing a conviction.

I firmly believe that LE has probable cause to arrest Terri Horman. But, i don't think they have enough evidence yet to sustain a conviction for first degree murder. They really need Kyron's body or one more piece of the puzzle that will nail her, IMO.

This lawsuit is a means of putting on the pressure, keeping the public interested in the case and hopefully gaining even a bit more evidence.

Remember, it took 3 years before Jason Young was arrested for his wife's murder. They had evidence, they had proof and they had probable cause. They just needed time to make a strong case. The same thing could be happening here.

Thanks gitana! I wish we could sticky this!!
 
  • #199
Terri better get used to the idea that Desiree is NEVER going to stop in her pursuit to bring Kyron home.
 
  • #200
Terri better get used to the idea that Desiree is NEVER going to stop in her pursuit to bring Kyron home.


:rocker: Great point !

I remember when Desiree first showed up in Roseburg -- ya would "think" that Terri would have gotten the "hint" then ...

And now this civil lawsuit against Terri ...

:woohoo::woohoo: Go Desiree ! :woohoo::woohoo:

:please: that Kyron is found !

:moo:
 
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