Well, something certainly wasn't "normal" and loving in that household to have an 8-yo pick up a gun and intentionally shoot his grandma.
And why were they sharing a bedroom? That's weird.
I thought that, but then I thought it was probably one of those 'homettes' older folks live in and since he was just staying there then it's not all that weird, because it was only for a few nights etc, so I'm letting it go.
Weird things for me here, why did the child know about the gun at all, if grandma wanted to keep a gun around for 'protection' or whatever, how did the child know it was there, or accidently find it, or find it loaded ... oh hang on, because it was probably in that bedroom they shared, and loaded so it could be readily used for 'protection' and not locked up for that same reason.
Second weird thing is the extremely violent video game I'm assuming not owned by grandma, so brought along with the 8 year old, yeap good stuff, letting the child play that one. Guess reading a book before bed just doesn't cut it anymore.
Also I doubt the child would have clobbered grandma over the head with a baseball bat or stabbed her to death with a steak knife from the kitchen drawer, and if he had tried it at least she would have had a chance to defend herself. Guns are way different to these items that can also be used to kill.
So if grandma wants to have a gun to give her a chance in case there is some kind of intruder, then that's fair enough I guess, but that makes the room where the gun is kept 'out of bounds' as far as I am concerned.
Is this kind of fear common and justified? If so, what happens when kids visit? Are there any laws around keeping loaded handguns in a bedside drawer, seems to me that's not a good idea when there are visitors, seems to me that keeping guns locked up in a safe is a waste of time and you may as well not have one at all.
Catch 22. Something has to change, or we just accept these deaths as collateral damage and learn to accept it as the price you pay.