Using yourself as a reference, imagine that your much-loved child is missing and you have reason to believe the child has been kidnapped. At this instant, your priority value becomes getting the child back safely.
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Did the actions of John Ramsey on the morning of Dec. 26, 1996 indicate that he believed JonBenet had been kidnapped? There were many actions that conflicted with the claimed belief. A very telling one was John going to the phone and calling in other persons.
What was his mind on then? How was this going to help find the alleged kidnapper and JonBenet? Were any of those called in knowledgeable about kidnapping and called in to assist? If they were not there to assist, why were they there? Could they be anything but a distraction and a hindrance to the investigation?
Yet, John called them in. Why? What truth in John's mind motivated this call? He valued them being there. For what purpose if not to assist in the investigation? They provided consolation and indication that he was believed. Assurance. They provided a buffer between John and the police just by their presence. They provided an emotional escape in a situation that had John on the verge of breakdown.
Although co-perpetrator, Patsy, was on the premises, John was pretty much alone in hostile territory. The hostile territory was in his mind as he knew there would be hostile action if the truth came out. The pressure was getting to him. He was about to lose it. He needed help in the form of friends who would believe, not question. This is what the phone call was about.
If the officer in charge had read suspect behavior, then had upon the arrival of the "guests" met them at the door and sent them away from the crime scene, it could have been a far different story than the long saga that is still being played out.
John knew the staging was poor. He originally held out little hope of getting away with it. On Dec. 26, 1996, he was waiting for the axe to fall. Suppose the officer in charge had after turning away the guest had turned to John and said, "O.K., John, I know there was no kidnapping. You know there was no kidnapping. Where's JonBenet?"
The shock of direct accusation with the expectation of being discovered would have most likely triggered the collapse of all defenses. I estimate that by this move there was a 90%+ chance of getting a confession and ending the matter then and there.
The failure of investigators to correctly observe suspect behavior and the invited "guests" provided John with a bit of a reprieve and a chance to compose himself a bit. Yet, the stress and fear was still very strong and reaching the point of intolerance. Something had to give.
John knew that sooner or later that the body would be discovered in the basement. Even worse, he feared it would not be discovered soon. The dread of what would happen after the discovery was so great that John wanted it over with. Again, John got a break. With the mention of searching the house again, John seized the opportunity and straightway "discovered" the body of JonBenet.
The tension was still there. It would not go away. Fear pervaded every thought. He wanted to run. He tried to run. He called the airport and planned to vacate the premises and the crime scene as soon as possible. He claimed this was out of concern for the safety of his family. Does anyone believe this?
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Suppose your child was kidnapped and a ransom note left. This ransom note is the link to your child. Taking things at face value, the fate of your child depends on the wishes of the kidnapper and your abiding by those wishes, or at least appearing to.
If the note says don't call the police, either you don't call the police or try to hide the fact from the kidnapper. You study the note in every detail trying to get every bit of information you can. You establish a specific relationship with the note as a link to the kidnapper.