as someone who has always "leaned" towards the mother did it theory. i have one KINK that i can't get beyond - maybe you guys can help me. as a mother, no matter what state i was in, i would never mistakenly put a size 12 panty on my 6 year old daughter. the mother knew where those size 12 panties were in the drawer and who they were for - she would never have grabbed those - IMO that was done by an intruder or another person in the house who was not the mother.
This has been discussed a lot here, but it's been awhile. See if this helps you:
Of course, you are absolutely correct about the size of the panties and whether a mother would dress her child in them.
BUT there is a very good explanation for why PR/JR would have put those too-big panties on her that night.
PR admitted to buying BOTH the size 6 Bloomies panties (for JBR) and the size 12 Bloomies panties (for her niece Jenny) that November while visiting New York City. They were most likely wrapped as a gift, among the packages found partially unwrapped in the basement by LE.
Christmas Day that year was a Wednesday- the day embroidered on the waistband of the panties found on the body.
Let's assume the original size 6 panties PR dressed her daughter in that day also said Wednesday. PR would have been JUST the type to make sure the day on the panties matched the date. As far as we know, THOSE size 6 panties were never found. Yet, she owned them, PR said she bought them.
After the return from the White's, and the events leading up to her the death, something happened to cause JBR to bleed from the vagina. We know this for 2 reasons: 1. Liquid and semi-liquid (beginning to coagulate) blood was found in her vagina at the autopsy.
And 2. Black light tests at the autopsy confirm that blood had been wiped from her pubic area and THIGHS (indicating that there was enough blood to have run down her thighs.
The original panties were stained with significant blood. They COULDN'T be left on her. The Rs maintain they never saw her alive after she was put to bed that night, so the body HAD to be found in the clothes she was wearing when they put her to bed. And PR said she left the shirt on her that she had worn to the White's and took off her shoes, socks and black velvet pants and pulled on her long johns ( she was found barefoot and wearing the long johns). Moms do leave panties on little girls for sleeping (I also did this with my daughter).
Many people do not believe PR's statement that the size-12s were in JBR's panty drawer (which was actually in her BATHROOM, not her bedroom- something no intruder would have known.) Besides, LE removed all JBR's panties- they were all size 4 or 6. NOWHERE were the rest of the size 12 panties (there were 7 pairs in the set) found in the home. Most believe the size 12s were wrapped as a gift to be given after Christmas to Jenny.
When the original size 6 panties became bloodied, they had to be replaced. BUT there was no other panty available that said WEDNESDAY except the size 12s. Why was it important for the panties to say WEDNESDAY? Simple. That is what she wore to the White's and it was well-known that JBR would ask any available adult to help her with wiping on the toilet. So someone other than PR or JR could have seen the panties she was wearing and may have remembered that they said WEDNESDAY. This is different than remembering whether they had pink or blue flowers on them- someone might not remember that because it was very ordinary, but panties that said WEDNESDAY might stick in the memory.
PR and JR couldn't take that chance- IF it was to be believed that they didn't see her after she went to bed.
So they had to open the gift-wrapped boxes in the basement to find the only other panty that also said WEDNESDAY. Police found unwrapped boxes. But the rest of the size 12s had disappeared. Months later, the Rs sent what they claim were the rest of the size 12s. These panties were sold at Bloomingdale's. They are STILL sold. It would have been easy to get another set.
NO intruder/murder would know where OTHER panties that said WEDNESDAY were in the house...they certainly would not have known that there was a spare set gift-wrapped in the basement.
An intruder/murderer would NOT have cared whether they replaced the panties anyway. Why would they? They had just killed a little girl...someone who did that would't care HOW she was found. Re-dressed in identical panties, wrapped in her own blanket, etc.-wouldn't be an issue. Leave the child the way she was when she died, bloody or no.
BUT if a parent was responsible and needed to hide the fact that there was, indeed, time spent with JBR awake after returning home, that is another story. They HAD to replace the clothing exactly as it would be expected to be.
This is long-winded, I know, but I've tried to make a plausible explanation for why a mother would put panties that clearly did not fit on her child.
Remember one other thing. JBR wore those panties only in death. The Rs NEVER expected that anyone would notice that they were too big or not her usual size. They never expected that Police would question the size of underwear on a dead little girl or that it would be made a big deal of.
Just like they never expected pineapple to be identified in her stomach. So they had to deny that, too.