Some of the posts on this thread are so disheartening.
Comments about:
- Wine glasses on the counter
- A wine box on the stove
- Deborah Bradley's father's t-shirt
- Deborah Bradley's hair cut and color.
None of those things matter. There's a lot of judging in this thread and I can't for the life of me see how it relates to Lisa.
So somebody drank wine at the house. We already knew DB bought a box of wine, what's the big surprise there? Looks to me like LE didn't disturb too much so chances are that box is still sitting our there.
So somebody used wine glasses in the house DB and JI were staying in. Who knows who used those glasses? Even if it was them, so what? Honestly, are we going to condemn them now for having a glass of wine (if, in fact, they did)?
The Dad's t-shirt. He can't win. If he wore a suit and tie we'd be seeing comments about how he has so much time to get all dressed up when he should be out looking for Lisa. So he dresses casually. So do I. So do my husband and sons. You should see some of their heavy metal band t-shirts! Does that mean they're bad people?
Her hair? Give me a break. Somebody cut it for her. It could be something as simple as a friend or relative telling her they'll wash and cut her hair to make her feel a little bit better. Maybe she even cut it herself if it was driving her mad. Who cares? The morning of my brother's funeral I helped my Mom put on make up and do her hair. I wonder now if people thought she was cold because she looked so nice on the day of her son's funeral? Funny thing is, she'd have gone to that funeral in her pajamas she was in such a state but other people around her tried to give her little boosts - little things like hair and make up that actually mean nothing.
Honestly... it's just disheartening.
Comments about:
- Wine glasses on the counter
- A wine box on the stove
- Deborah Bradley's father's t-shirt
- Deborah Bradley's hair cut and color.
None of those things matter. There's a lot of judging in this thread and I can't for the life of me see how it relates to Lisa.
So somebody drank wine at the house. We already knew DB bought a box of wine, what's the big surprise there? Looks to me like LE didn't disturb too much so chances are that box is still sitting our there.
So somebody used wine glasses in the house DB and JI were staying in. Who knows who used those glasses? Even if it was them, so what? Honestly, are we going to condemn them now for having a glass of wine (if, in fact, they did)?
The Dad's t-shirt. He can't win. If he wore a suit and tie we'd be seeing comments about how he has so much time to get all dressed up when he should be out looking for Lisa. So he dresses casually. So do I. So do my husband and sons. You should see some of their heavy metal band t-shirts! Does that mean they're bad people?
Her hair? Give me a break. Somebody cut it for her. It could be something as simple as a friend or relative telling her they'll wash and cut her hair to make her feel a little bit better. Maybe she even cut it herself if it was driving her mad. Who cares? The morning of my brother's funeral I helped my Mom put on make up and do her hair. I wonder now if people thought she was cold because she looked so nice on the day of her son's funeral? Funny thing is, she'd have gone to that funeral in her pajamas she was in such a state but other people around her tried to give her little boosts - little things like hair and make up that actually mean nothing.
Honestly... it's just disheartening.