LIVE MSM COVERAGE on BABY LISA - 22-23 OCTOBER 2011

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I pray you never experience this.

This is what a compassionate person who has experienced a tragic loss says. Bless you Denalves. My heart breaks for what you & your family have experienced.


You did hear that dizzy. But, the caller said it was a rumor. The same caller mentioned that Debbi's side of the family is on Facebook tonight saying that they wish everyone who is suspicious of Debbi has a child abducted so they know what it feels like. I don't have Facebook, but maybe the river hit rumor came from there too?

BBM

If what this caller said is true - it seems there is a lot of hatred & rage being expressed in that sentiment. I hope as time goes by, whomever allegedly made that remark will wish they hadn't said it.

It's one thing to say "Unless you've experienced this or that..."

It's another thing entirely to wish that someone's child would be abducted. IMO, only an extremely immature, hateful person says such a thing.

Maybe LE should pay a visit to whomever allegedly made that comment?
 
It was a box o' wine........no glasses involved two or three straws stuck together is all you need.

In Missouri, no straws required:

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Some of the posts on this thread are so disheartening.

Comments about:
- Wine glasses on the counter
- A wine box on the stove
- Deborah Bradley's father's t-shirt
- Deborah Bradley's hair cut and color.

None of those things matter. There's a lot of judging in this thread and I can't for the life of me see how it relates to Lisa.

So somebody drank wine at the house. We already knew DB bought a box of wine, what's the big surprise there? Looks to me like LE didn't disturb too much so chances are that box is still sitting our there.

So somebody used wine glasses in the house DB and JI were staying in. Who knows who used those glasses? Even if it was them, so what? Honestly, are we going to condemn them now for having a glass of wine (if, in fact, they did)?

The Dad's t-shirt. He can't win. If he wore a suit and tie we'd be seeing comments about how he has so much time to get all dressed up when he should be out looking for Lisa. So he dresses casually. So do I. So do my husband and sons. You should see some of their heavy metal band t-shirts! Does that mean they're bad people?

Her hair? Give me a break. Somebody cut it for her. It could be something as simple as a friend or relative telling her they'll wash and cut her hair to make her feel a little bit better. Maybe she even cut it herself if it was driving her mad. Who cares? The morning of my brother's funeral I helped my Mom put on make up and do her hair. I wonder now if people thought she was cold because she looked so nice on the day of her son's funeral? Funny thing is, she'd have gone to that funeral in her pajamas she was in such a state but other people around her tried to give her little boosts - little things like hair and make up that actually mean nothing.

Honestly... it's just disheartening.

I'm very sorry to hear about your mother at your brother's funeral. I would have been this same way if it was me going to one of my children's funerals.

But, what is disheartening to me in this case is a mother who drank so much that she admitted to possibly "blacking out"...a mother who didn't check on her sick baby for 4 hours...a mother who changed her story several times...a mother who was flippant and even upbeat in her interviews with media...and, most of all, the cadaver dog hitting on a spot in the mother's bedroom. That...was disheartening to me.
 
DB may have been drinking vodka and using the wine as chasers. :floorlaugh:
 
Some of the posts on this thread are so disheartening.

Comments about:
- Wine glasses on the counter
- A wine box on the stove
- Deborah Bradley's father's t-shirt
- Deborah Bradley's hair cut and color.

None of those things matter. There's a lot of judging in this thread and I can't for the life of me see how it relates to Lisa.

So somebody drank wine at the house. We already knew DB bought a box of wine, what's the big surprise there? Looks to me like LE didn't disturb too much so chances are that box is still sitting our there.

So somebody used wine glasses in the house DB and JI were staying in. Who knows who used those glasses? Even if it was them, so what? Honestly, are we going to condemn them now for having a glass of wine (if, in fact, they did)?

The Dad's t-shirt. He can't win. If he wore a suit and tie we'd be seeing comments about how he has so much time to get all dressed up when he should be out looking for Lisa. So he dresses casually. So do I. So do my husband and sons. You should see some of their heavy metal band t-shirts! Does that mean they're bad people?

Her hair? Give me a break. Somebody cut it for her. It could be something as simple as a friend or relative telling her they'll wash and cut her hair to make her feel a little bit better. Maybe she even cut it herself if it was driving her mad. Who cares? The morning of my brother's funeral I helped my Mom put on make up and do her hair. I wonder now if people thought she was cold because she looked so nice on the day of her son's funeral? Funny thing is, she'd have gone to that funeral in her pajamas she was in such a state but other people around her tried to give her little boosts - little things like hair and make up that actually mean nothing.

Honestly... it's just disheartening.

AMEN to that.
 
Is the grim reaper in front of the parents house where Lisa was taken from?
I'm pretty sure it is. This pic was at a vigil and all the vigils have been held at the house.
 
Exactly. And it is a stretch to say she went to get it done. Could very easily be a home job by well meaning peeps.

Yup, and for many people when you get the length cut off your hair gets darker. Because the outer layer and bottoms is where the sun has hit more.

I think she could sneeze and someone would claim it's somehow related, or some sort of sign.

She may very well be the perp here, time and evidence will make that clear. In the mean time, think about all the men who get their hair cut during their ordeals, or shave. They remain somewhat polished- should they abandon personal upkeep too? Or maybe men can go to the barber without accusation, I don't know.
 
And, any theories why they would use the word "kidnapped" instead of "missing" or "abducted?"

Which sounds worse...

My daughter was kidnapped...

My daugher is missing....

My daugher was abducted....

When I think of "abducted" ... I think family abduction... child is with family

My daugher is missing.... IMO....missing is a weak word for the action that happened...

The words ....My daughter was "kidnapped" makes me think... stranger... omg panick sets in... fear....don't know who has my child.. don;t know if my child has been murdered or not.... ect ect..

If my child were missing, I think I would use the word kidnapped ... personally, I think it is a more powerful word for the situation....IF the situation is a true kidnapping...
 
I definitely ain't claiming to be no genius here!!..lol.. Don't think being a little ol' hairdresser qualifies me as being smart.. Infact it's the trade many go to when they can't pass anything else..lol.. Truly thought it a joke and my lowly little hairdressing self certainly wasn't trying to outsmart anyone.. Its just a fact that it doesn't affect any testing that would be done on hair samples..:blush:
 
A box of wine is 3 liters. A normal sized bottle of wine is 750ml so 250ML less than in one liter.
 
A box of wine is 3 liters. A normal sized bottle of wine is 750ml so 250ML less than in one liter.

3 liter and 5 liter boxes. The box we see Debbie pick up in the grocery store appears to be a 5 liter box to me. 20-25 glasses worth.
 
Some of the posts on this thread are so disheartening.

Comments about:
- Wine glasses on the counter
- A wine box on the stove
- Deborah Bradley's father's t-shirt
- Deborah Bradley's hair cut and color.

None of those things matter. There's a lot of judging in this thread and I can't for the life of me see how it relates to Lisa.

So somebody drank wine at the house. We already knew DB bought a box of wine, what's the big surprise there? Looks to me like LE didn't disturb too much so chances are that box is still sitting our there.

So somebody used wine glasses in the house DB and JI were staying in. Who knows who used those glasses? Even if it was them, so what? Honestly, are we going to condemn them now for having a glass of wine (if, in fact, they did)?

The Dad's t-shirt. He can't win. If he wore a suit and tie we'd be seeing comments about how he has so much time to get all dressed up when he should be out looking for Lisa. So he dresses casually. So do I. So do my husband and sons. You should see some of their heavy metal band t-shirts! Does that mean they're bad people?

Her hair? Give me a break. Somebody cut it for her. It could be something as simple as a friend or relative telling her they'll wash and cut her hair to make her feel a little bit better. Maybe she even cut it herself if it was driving her mad. Who cares? The morning of my brother's funeral I helped my Mom put on make up and do her hair. I wonder now if people thought she was cold because she looked so nice on the day of her son's funeral? Funny thing is, she'd have gone to that funeral in her pajamas she was in such a state but other people around her tried to give her little boosts - little things like hair and make up that actually mean nothing.

Honestly... it's just disheartening.

I understand your frustration and many people here have commented on the fact that this is a position NO ONE would ever want to be in because exactly as you stated - it's a "no win" situation. Everything you do can be picked apart and judged negatively. In the absence of much publicly visible LE and media activity, I think people are just talking through opinions about what information was "out there" today which frankly hasn't had much to do specifically with Lisa for quite a while now. I think that is at the heart of much of what I read here - people do not understand why they aren't seeing more of family focus on finding Lisa. Although I do agree that in some cases the criticism can be more judgmental than constructive, I do not think that is generally the intent.

MOO
 
Is the grim reaper in front of the parents house where Lisa was taken from?

Yes, it's right in back of the parents at the vigil. It's simply a halloween decoration, with the grim reaper, a couple of tombstones, and a ghost.

It's just in poor taste on the house where a child could be dead. IMOO

I am sure they meant nothing by it, but it still is not right. MOO
 
Until you wake up to an empty crib, are accused of hurting your child, having to be put in front of media and cameras with everything you say being critiqued or taken out of context, having to deal with Police, and on top of it the emotions of missing your baby. You will know! My Parents lives were never the same after my brother's disappearance. They would never support someone if they thought they had something to do with their child's disappearance.

This is a classic case of tunnel vision.

The spin is giving me a headache.
 
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