I am thinking that Jodi thought their secret travel life was to continue even after she moved to Yreka, whether or not he dated others. Travis told her he was coming to visit her in Y during their phone sex conversation. The middle of the night phone calls could have been sexy time as well, thus giving Arias additional justification to feel that the breakup was just a breakup as far as the world knew. They had already secretly been traveling and screwing, so naturally she would be discreet and they could continue.
After all the phone sex and debasement she had taken and even initiated, for him to take that from her and then threaten to ruin her opportunity to reattach to another rich PPL guy (after she had given up so much, in her view).
I feel quite certain Travis said things to her as they fought on June 4th which hit far too close to home. Might have said she is like a man liking oral sex, anal sex and testosterone, might have said he wonders if her bottom is normal and that he is inexperienced really and she could be a he/she for all she knows.
You can see her feeling like she would have to kill him for saying she wasn't all woman despite the nose job, the boob job, the clit job or whatever job.
Pure speculation, folks, just throwing it out there.
PS> have you all been talking about that huge bruise on Jodi's arm? Anyone know how she got that?
I tend to agree with the person who believes moving back to Yreka may have been part of her murder plan, for the simple reason that everything she did that shows premeditation involved sneaking in and out of Arizona undetected.
If she intended to stay in the relationship she would have no reason to rent a car from a city 100 miles away, borrow/buy 3 gas cans so she wouldn't have to fill up in Arizona, turn her cell phone off the part of her trip she was in or near Arizona, establish an alibi for her trip, or dye her hair brown. Or steal her grandfather's gun and make it look like a burglary.
If she remained in Mesa, she knew she'd be the #1 suspect.
So I doubt they had any argument on June 4. I doubt he ever thought she wasn't all woman; he was too inexperienced to know how other women were sexually. I doubt she had any illusion Travis would ever take her to Cancun--his friends who were going were vocal in their dislike of JA. And she certainly knew she'd never be his wife.
As far as her bottom, my husband is a general physician who has examined many thousands of female private parts and says she is completely normal, and better than many. As far as women liking oral and anal sex, both are common among ordinary women, some more than others, and an endless number of young, wholesome-looking, gorgeous girls voluntarily participate in sex videos. You can find 18-year-old Miss Delaware Melissa King's sex video online right now. Some even enjoy extreme S&M, which I don't get but whatever floats their boat.
As someone else said, men who encounter a nymphomaniac at first feel they have won the lottery, until they see everything else that comes with it. She clearly drove him nuts, wouldn't shut up, kept prying into his personal affairs, did something he said hurt him more than he'd ever been hurt in his life.
Her handwriting shows she is very resentful of criticism, and however she may have pretended it didn't bother her, imo she was angered and humiliated to be called the things he called her. She had known for nearly a year that he planned to date with marriage in mind, and it pointedly did not include her. The only way she could prevent it and keep him as hers forever was to kill him. The 5/26 texts brought it to a head and the gun was 'stolen' just two days later, but I suspect it was bubbling in her head for some time.