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justice2 said:
You're probably right. I did some back tracking and all I can think I did was mix up that with the fact that the bunkbed were made up, but that totally doesn't make sense either. I knew the boys didn't sleep upstairs. I'm sure this won't be the last time.

Forty lashes with a wet noodle? ....
I'm just the messenger, the pictures tell the story. Damon's bed was made because he usually slept with Devon. They both look made in the picture of Devon's bedroom. The bottom bunk has an extra blanket on it. Neither boy was using a blanket from his bed that night.
 
beesy said:
I'd had have to send you an email to go into the whole Mac thing. Helena Stoeckley was completely crazy. All she ever said in the first place was she couldn't remember where she was from midnight-4AM. She confessed, recanted, confessed, once she said she dreamed she was there and watched Mac murder his family. Nut. Anyway, if you get interested in the case here is a great site;
http://websleuths.com/forums/newreply.php?do=newreply&p=975231
Also if you want to see pictures of REAL defense wounds, have a look at Colette's arms http://www.thejeffreymacdonaldcase.com/html/autopsy_photos.html
be warned: these are autopsy photos.
I agree that Helena was a nut-case and wasn't involved.

The MacDonald case was my first true-crime obsession. I think I read Fatal Vision when I was 12 or 13. Then when I was in college and the Routier case happened, I started reading about that. The similarities are amazing. Anyway, I am absolutely convinced that Dr. Jeff killed his wife and children, but have never gotten to that point w/ Darlie. Of course, Jeff is still claiming that he didn't do it and has convinced the Courts to conduct DNA testing. I'm all for it. Then he'll shut-up, rot in his cell where he belongs and Collette, Kimberly and Kristin can finally rest in peace.
 
G.I.RattlesnakeJane said:
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Don't judge Darlie on what she did or didn't do. Don't judge her on what you would have done you aren't darlie and she isn't you. Thats unfair bias. You have never had your two kids either killed by you or butchered by someone else none of knows how we would really react to the situation.


OF COURSE we're to judge Darlie on what she did or didn't do. That's why we're here. AND, as much as it may dismay you, we're also here to try and speculate what we would have done. You can't put limitations on a discussion forum such as this.
 
KatiesMom said:
I agree that Helena was a nut-case and wasn't involved.

The MacDonald case was my first true-crime obsession. I think I read Fatal Vision when I was 12 or 13. Then when I was in college and the Routier case happened, I started reading about that. The similarities are amazing. Anyway, I am absolutely convinced that Dr. Jeff killed his wife and children, but have never gotten to that point w/ Darlie. Of course, Jeff is still claiming that he didn't do it and has convinced the Courts to conduct DNA testing. I'm all for it. Then he'll shut-up, rot in his cell where he belongs and Collette, Kimberly and Kristin can finally rest in peace.
I just wanted to say we must be about the same age! I read Fatal Vision for the first time in the 7th grade! I even did a book report on it. I used the diagram of the apartment for my poster! Nowadays, they'd send me to a shrink. I think we should move anymore actual analyzing of the case to one of the Mac boards. http://boards.courttv.com/showthread.php?s=&postid=7468328#post7468328
cami from here knows the Mac case inside and out.
 
G.I.RattlesnakeJane said:
Darlie didn't sustain the wounds the boys did and I may be able to figure it all out I have an idea or two to throw around.

Just asking other peoples opinions about the case too.
Why didn't an adult with much more life insurance on them Darlie or Darin die.
This makes an obvious statement to investigators that the parents or parent killed the children.If you are planning an attack you need a story that covers all the bases and leaves you in the clear. The only person I see here that fits that description is Darin.
There's no evidence against Darin. All of our talk about him downstairs when Damon was stabbed, etc, is just talk, theory. Nothing points to him. If he had been trying to kill Darlie, I think he would have killed her first. Then the boys. Darin and Darlie had/have a strange love, neither one treated the other very well, but I always see them as wanting to be with each other rather than with the boys. I don't think he wanted to kill Darlie. If he did, he would have left her by now. He bragged about her beauty and breast size in the family waiting room. She was status to him. Is this why he called her fat? He didn't want her to slip off of that podium? Because of that, she could control him. Losing her would be losing his trophy. I think they both believed they loved/love each other, but it's not a normal type of thing.
I can't remember where it was, maybe Springer's book, but Darin said something about working for everything he's got, look at his success, he's got a beautiful house and a beautiful wife, life is good. What's missing from that statement?
 
justice2 said:
But don't you think she was serious that night. And yes, I've been around some couples that are similar to this. It's like an addiction. And I've always wondered how they knew when the other one WAS serious.
No, I don't think it was about Darlie and Darin breaking up. I think it was probably more about Darlie and Darin staying united. I think whatever arguing they did that night ended with "better them than us" or "its the only way."

Could it have been purely emotional and absent of preplanning? Yes, but that suicide whatever it was the month before stands out like a sore thumb. It only seems to fit into things in a natural flow when you consider a plan evolving out of it. (It is not unusual for suicidal parents to end up killing their children or family members later on.)

Another thing that stands out is the maid being hired just two days before the crime, bringing the jewelry downstairs that day, and telling the maid she (Darlie) needed $10,000, which just happened to be the exact amount of the insurance on the boys, and those files being found right there in the scene as if during their discussions/arguments over money, the topic "insurance" came up. Too darned many coincidences in this case for them all to be accidental.

Was Darlie serious that night as opposed to just threatening in the past? I doubt it. I think if she had been serious the kids would still be alive. You don't decide to leave your husband and then slaughter the children all within the same hour or two of making the decision. Shoot, at that point she wouldn't have even known if he would change his mind and do things her way. It makes no sense at all for Darlie to crash that badly that night. I don't think even a seriously mentally ill mother would go down that fast. So, no, I don't think the argument got much more heated than normal over her leaving. Maybe they had a good one over whether to kill the kids or not, qnd what their life would be like if they didn't do something "now," but I don't think the "separation" talk was a key element in what happened at all. They just want to use it now to their advantage.
 
justice2 said:
And what's more, if we are to believe that Darlie is uneducated as GI Jane states and is not interested in anything scientific, why would she be thinking about that when she is in shock, or just in the midst of all the chaos.

Darin was the one that told her to say that and she ran with it after that?
Well, obviously they discussed the problem of fingerprints getting on the knife handle. I think she planned on placing the knife on the floor, probably wiped clean of prints, and then the thing with Damon happened. Either the knife never made it to the floor or she had to pick it up suddenly to use again. Then she left it on the counter with the handle pointiing to the family room and didn't realize it until that moment the knife issue came up on the call. Suddenly she has a problem and the first thing she can think of is that her prints are on it!!! She has got to make sure people know that she picked up the knife so they won't think she used the knife. That is why she keeps on saying it to whoever will listen, even at the hospital all day that day. She has to make sure that several people know that her prints on the knife were from her picking it up. That seems not well planned to me, like a mistake that is being corrected.
 
Goody said:
The only place I have heard that is from Darin in one of the online chats he did. I would like to get that validated so if you run across anyone of authority referring to it, please give me the link.
I first heard that from you Goody
 
G.I.RattlesnakeJane said:
She didn't think of prints till someone in authority told her to not touch anything. She responds with a ( I didn't know, I didn't think about it ) tone in her voice. That's what gets her to thinking about the fact that there is going to be an investigation. She doesn't even bring the subject up untill after the 911 op. gets her to thinking. She is hanging on to hope right now and I think she knew Devon was dead and yes she is mad at Darin for not helping Damon. I think that is why she is calling his name or the boy was trying to breathe after having his lungs punctured.This might be when he was moving around
If she brought it up it would be different.I

Don't judge Darlie on what she did or didn't do. Don't judge her on what you would have done you aren't darlie and she isn't you. Thats unfair bias. You have never had your two kids either killed by you or butchered by someone else none of knows how we would really react to the situation.
No but other people have and we can use their reactions as a guide to what the majority might do or not do. No one is convicting Darlie on her reactions but once you judge the physical evidence, it is only natural to turn to the defendant's behaviors for further proof. Sadly, it is well known that parents who lose their children to sudden violence thru no fault of their own do not concern themselves with fingerprints on a murder weapon whether they picked it up or not. Esp not to the extreme that Darlie did. She told everyone about those prints, never once asking about her children. Not even asking to see their bodies, etc. Her last vision of them was their bloodied bodies and she acts like, "O, well, that's over. Now let's do the funeral and get on with life. What's next?" This kind of behavior has to be judged as much as if she had held them until she was torn away from them, if she had asked about them at the hospital, if she had been more concerned with the horror she had just witnessed rather than fingerprints on a murder weapon....If she had done everything the way we expected, we would use that to show innocence. Why can't we use her behaviors equally to show guilt?
 
G.I.RattlesnakeJane said:
She didn't think of prints till someone in authority told her to not touch anything. She responds with a ( I didn't know, I didn't think about it ) tone in her voice. That's what gets her to thinking about the fact that there is going to be an investigation. She doesn't even bring the subject up untill after the 911 op. gets her to thinking. She is hanging on to hope right now and I think she knew Devon was dead and yes she is mad at Darin for not helping Damon. I think that is why she is calling his name or the boy was trying to breathe after having his lungs punctured.This might be when he was moving around
If she brought it up it would be different.I

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Darlie mentions the murder weapon. The operator tells her not to touch it. She says, too late, I already did. Then after the operator has moved on to something else, Darlie brings it back to the knife and says, O, no, I probably messed up the prints. But the real evidence of where her head was at is at the hospital. She told more than one nurse that she picked up the knife and what a pity that was because maybe they could have gotten prints if she hadn't. She was building witnesses in case she needed them.

I have forgotten now exactly why the murder weapon came up on the 911 call. Wasn't Darlie telling the first Police officer where it was?
 
detectivewannabe said:
Ok, adding on to the fight....I also believe she was taking diet pills (don't beat me up) and I think Darin and her sister had something "strange" going on. Add THAT and maybe there was a enormous fight. I know when I am home all day with the kids and I'm p.m.s.ing, I get very edging. Is it true Darin took Darlie's sister home on the night of the murder? Maybe hormones were raging, maybe some otc diet pills, hunger, suspicions, money problems, "stuck" with the kids all day, picking up the same things all day long, not getting enough sleep and the summer heat just all hit at once and she exploded??????? I don't know. I agree with the previous poster. I think she's guilty then I talk myself right out of it
It's true she was taking Phen. Those diet pills can make you paranoid. So even if there was nothing going on between Darin and Dana, Darlie could have suspected there was. So she's smoldering, thinking about all of their problems while, once again, she's alone with the boys. He walks in and BAM.
 
txsvicki said:
I have never heard this. Did Darlie go to a garage sale in a thong bikini with no shorts or any sort of swimsuit cover up? If so, then she is way more than depressed. Darlie may also have been manic or have more mental illness because that is crazy.
She was only 19 at the time, I think. It was at the house on Bond Street, that neighborhood. You can find it in Hush Little Babies by Don Davis.

I don't think it proves she was unbalanced mentally. LOL! She was just strutting her stuff like young girls do sometimes on a hot summer day. I don't think Darlie was a modest young woman but that doesn't make her crazy either.
 
justice2 said:
I've already said that that was right, that the 911 operator brought it up.
Do you remember why the operator brought it up? I am thinking Darlie pointed the knife out to the policeman who was in the house unbeknownst to the operator and then the operator said not to touch it. Or did the operator say not to touch anything and then Darlie bring it up? I am too lazy to go listen again.
 
Jeana (DP) said:
OF COURSE we're to judge Darlie on what she did or didn't do. That's why we're here. AND, as much as it may dismay you, we're also here to try and speculate what we would have done. You can't put limitations on a discussion forum such as this.
Killing anybody typically makes you a very bad person and open for judgement.
 
txsvicki said:
If one were screaming as he were being stabbed, wouldn't the other one have to be held down or kept from running away? Is there any evidence of the boys' mouths being pressed or injured from maybe a hand being held tightly over them? If Darlie did this alone, then she must have covered their mouths and stabbed one quickly, then the other one.
I don't know. My kids could sleep thru an earthquake (one did..LOL!) They wouldn't sleep thru getting stabbed though. I think it takes time for a body to react to injury. It would take more than a lung puncture to silence our voices. Patients can talk with a collapsed lung. So I am thinking that until the lungs fill up with enough fluid to labor breathing so much that speaking is too difficult, these kids would be making whatever sounds they could, starting with screams and losing volume as it worsened.
 
G.I.RattlesnakeJane said:
Knives are also known as the silent killers.
One boy, the oldest Devon was more brutally stabbed as his wounds were from the front and he shows defense wounds. 1 wound to his buttocks, it is surmised he kicked at the assailant. It would not take as long as you think to kill this child and quietly. The other child was assaulted on his back and this is a sign of being asleep. Many opinions exist but IMO 2, similar knives were used. The wounds experienced by the oldest child do not have the same serrations as the knife used on Darlie and Damon. This is testified to in the trial by a officer named Chris Frosch. The wounds were actually analyzed and the knife did have the proper blade width or nicks, other wise serrations as the wounds suffered by Devon.

This inconsistancy is what makes me think 2 knives were used.
Technical terms for serrated edges do not mean the same to experts as it does to us in our kitchen. It is the way the knife blade is beveled down. Someone once explained this to me and i have forgotten who or where it was, but I wouldn't get too wrapped up in the serated edges as proof another knife existed. I think any knife with a beveled edge is considered to be serrated. You would have to check that out though because I can't remember enough details to help much. Sorry about that.
 
G.I.RattlesnakeJane said:
Darlie didn't sustain the wounds the boys did and I may be able to figure it all out I have an idea or two to throw around.

Just asking other peoples opinions about the case too.
Why didn't an adult with much more life insurance on them Darlie or Darin die.
This makes an obvious statement to investigators that the parents or parent killed the children.If you are planning an attack you need a story that covers all the bases and leaves you in the clear. The only person I see here that fits that description is Darin.
Most parents who kill their children do not do it for insurance money. A few do but it is rare. At least much rarer than those who kill for emotional reasons.

These parents, I think, were united, too bonded with each other to consider killing the other parent. They wanted money but not at the expense of losing each other. They were a team. I see no evidence that either of them would have risked losing the other at that point in their lives. Most of all they wanted to make those summer trips.
 
beesy said:
I first heard that from you Goody
I read it on a chat Darin did after the conviction. He said "they" tested the sound in the house during the investigation.
 
Goody said:
She was only 19 at the time, I think. It was at the house on Bond Street, that neighborhood. You can find it in Hush Little Babies by Don Davis.

I don't think it proves she was unbalanced mentally. LOL! She was just strutting her stuff like young girls do sometimes on a hot summer day. I don't think Darlie was a modest young woman but that doesn't make her crazy either.


I need to find those books or ask the my library to order them if possible. I couldn't find Precious Angels on the library computer. I don't know, I still think that running around in a thong bikini may not be actually crazy but is very extreme for anyone who's not at a pool or beach where everyone else is wearing the same thing. Not just a bikini but a "thong" bikini showing her entire rear end at a garage sale? Just like the huge breast implants are on the extreme side and not the average Mom of small children. Was Darlie impulsive and maybe manic depressive and no one caught it?
 

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