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I don't see too many reasons to question his paternity, and I'm not entirely sure why it matters in his case. He believes he's the father, and although he might not have been living in the same house or up to the sort of standards as a father that we 'expect' a man to be, he seems to have felt some kind of connection to the child. Whether he donated the sperm or not, he's the closest thing to father she had....none of the men RB was involved with tried to take on the role of a proper dad to her.
Sometimes the genetic connection isn't the main thing, it's whether or not a parent cares and is there for a child.
What does his being the 'dad' mean, now that Bella's dead? I don't mean that just in a rhetorical sense, but what does it mean? Why is it important? Does it mean there's a father crying in the gallery as the evidence is read out? Even that will do something for Bella. The jury will (I presume) need to see people in the gallery who care and are affected by the loss of the dear child. Whether or not that assists in justice, I don't know.
She is a prostitute. Anyone can be the father. The closest thing to a father that she had? He is no where CLOSE to being a father, IMO.
What does his being the "dad" mean now that she is dead? Hundreds of people - thousands - have cared more for this little girl than he or she ever did.
And he gets to arrive here after her death and all that effort and still not contact police and THEN make decisions as to her final rest?
Ridiculous!
And they got her name wrong on the memorial.
http://boston.cbslocal.com/2015/10/08/second-autopsy-postpones-baby-bella-bonds-funeral/
MOO