I got that from your previous thoughts going back a way. The scenario based on your own experiences where you didn't tell a soul etc.What? No not at all.
I'm not sure how you got that.
I suggested she could have been out over the summer and ran into a friend of a friend while she was out with friends or something like that. I guess technically that means they were out in the open...but if she hanging out with a group of people why would he specifically fall under suspicion.
Why would she tell her mom about him?
Again as I've said several times I do NOT think she wasn't having some closed OR open relationship with him. I think there connection could be far more casual then that.
I wouldn't expect for her to tell her Mom, but if it's "casual", I wouldn't expect for her to keep it a secret from her either, ie. say she was going out for a jog when in fact she was going out to meet someone in the example you used previously.
Thanks for clarifying.
If it's casual, why all the rage?