Falconi
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bbm
IMO, JS was overwhelmed as an outsider, in the city. And an outsider to the Barnes family. That, in combination with her lashing out at DB in the media, made working with the Bmore family impossible. Perhaps they also didn't have the financial means with 2 or 3 other children at home to be in Bmore? I know nothing about the family dynamics, either. I get the feeling JS is a force to be reckoned with, and unable to forgive at this point. And she may have recognized that she was incapable of helping there, so went home. To be incapacitated by grief...I don't know what that feels like. I'd like to think I would be rallying the troupes and going from door to door and doing everything I could. But maybe I would be unable to move, unable to think... So I don't want to criticize family members for how they react or don't react.
BBM
To be sure.
There is no way that any of us know how JS feels or how we would react, God forbid, if placed in her unfortunate circumstance. Please know that my comment shouldn't be read with the slightest bit of criticism, inference, or subliminal dig.
I feel that there is a certain gravitas that JS's presence would bring that no one else could come close to. This is invaluable to the search effort, there's no way around it. imo
She is definitely a force to be reckoned with, yet and still this has got to be a time where JS is a fragile as a lily, and so the struggle over what to do must be gut-wrenching.
I appreciate your illustrating all of the complexities involved with JS setting up a base camp of operations in Bmore. It makes sense that it would be extremely difficult at best for her to do that.
I'm so concerned for JS. I just hope that the folks in Bmore realize that PB functioned through JS.
If there's love for PB, they have to show respect to JS. Period.
JMO