I responded with:
We discussed the possible hybrophilia connection about five or six threads back. That's not what I was I talking about here. Here, I was talking about Homolka and Pitonyak, not Bernardo or Hall (Homolka and Pitonyak's cohorts, respectively), nor the dynamics between the couples, nor the dynamics between AK and RS.
I was offering Homolka and Pitonyak as examples of people without any known abuse in their childhood who still do incredibly horrid acts.
Please see above.
Additionally, there is debate about whether or not Bernardo was indeed raping prior to his relationship with Homolka.
I didn't mention Bernardo as a person who committed horrid acts but wasn't abused as a child as there's evidence he possibly was. I don't know enough about Pitonyak's cohort, Laura Ashley Hall, to know whether or not she was abused as a child.
Not that I even buy into the idea that most abusers were abused. A lot of abusers report they were abused as children, but that's their words, not necessarily the facts.
With all that said, though, I am going to again state that I do not discount the idea of a possible hybristophiliac connection between AK and RS. That's my opinion, I'm free to have it and state it. You are free to disagree and state so, but it'd be nice for disagreement to be stated in a respectful manner.