I'm sure that's not what anyone meant.
I've read thousands of pages on this case now and have yet to see ANYONE here blame MK in any way.
I think what you are referring to was a mention that if she was surprised by RG breaking in, she never had a chance to choose a "non-confrontational" approach. Just as he never had a chance to try to talk his way out of the situation.
Wow, you totally and succinctly summed it right up. That's exactly the point I had been making. :clap::clap::clap::clap::clap::clap:
I think I'd touched on this before in another thread when I'd compared it to his response to that preschool lady. She was calm, but the situation was different. It was daytime, she was at work, not in her own home, and I think she had other people with her.
So she was calm when she saw RG come out of her office. He tried to talk his way out of it.
Understandably, MK was most likely NOT calm when she saw him in HER private house AT NIGHT and she was alone. MK might even have been a frightened calm at first and managed to ask, "What are you doing here?" but I can "imagine and guess" that as her brain was calculating thta he had no business there and couldn't be up to any good, he probably sensed that she was about to run or scream or something, and the conversation would have totally deteriorated.
So I'm guessing. I am extremely curious about what happened in those moments, because even though it's horrible surely, these were MK's last moments. And if they were horrible, at least I can know it and tell her I'm sorry.
I do that sometimes. I speak to the victims. DO NOT think I'm weird. But if I'm outside smoking, I'll think of them and what happened to them and I might utter, "I'm so sorry Meredith." and I might cry.
So yes. I want to know and guess about her last moments because I want her spirit to know and feel (if you believe that sort of thing) that people cared about her suffering. Sorry if I seem to be putting on my straight jacket, but I have deep empathy for victims and I cry for them a lot as I imagine what happened to them. My theories might be wrong, but I do care so very much.
It reminds me, I was studying jonestown, and listening to that last 45 minutes tape when they drank that poison and died, oh, man was I crying.