MI MI - Alexandra Brueger, 31, Fatally Shot While Jogging, Rose Twp, 30 July 2016 #3

[DexterMorgan]

Me and my wife's exs would ever join forces

Do we know if the ex’s have been interviewed by LE? Or if they were ever considered suspects.

Idk.

But he knows every ex is a suspect. But he continually coddles them as if he wants their recognition instead of vetting them. Jmo.

Trust no one.

 

[DexterMorgan]

Imo.

If you want to show that every other person agrees with you about a poi.

And then get mad when they decide not to publicly agree with you.

Then you are a suspect thats mad that you now feel that people doubt your intentions.

Because everyone told you to keep the private messages quiet.

But you decide to blast them online as if the cops are days away from arresting a innocent you. Jmo.

 

[DexterMorgan]

If I'm innocent. Then her 3 exs and the 1 mother can fend for themselves since I wouldnt need their validation. Jmo .

I truly never seen a innocent person blame a reporter for tricking them for a supposed conclusion to blame the innocent parents. Lol

 

[DexterMorgan]

You agreed with me. So why are you changing things now

Because you sound belligerent and guilty while exposing every private conversation that took place.

So keep it moving buddy.

 

[Whiskers16]

You agreed with me. So why are you changing things now

Because you sound belligerent and guilty while exposing every private conversation that took place.

So keep it moving buddy.

Are you responding to someone? I don't really understand your last few posts.

 

[Hazelnutty]

Are you responding to someone? I don't really understand your last few posts.

I'm lost, as well. This thread is a doozey.

 

[human]

Yet they expressed love to each other on the texts Saturday morning at 4:45 AM. That doesn't seem to indicate "something happened Friday night at work", or that "someone ended the relationship".
UNSOLVED - Mi - Alexandra Brueger, 31, Fatally Shot While Jogging, Rose Twp, 30 July 2016 #2

Jul 30, 2016, 4:45 AM
Texts, per screenshots:
Ally – Lol why are you making artwork
Wes – I’m bored and she loves love
Ally – Lol : ) I love you
Wes – I love you too : )

I see people saying “I love you “all of the time onFB but it does not mean they love them as in bf, gf. It seems to be a phrase used a lot that does not have much meaning

 

[Deleted member 102539]

rsbm
UNSOLVED - Mi - Alexandra Brueger, 31, Fatally Shot While Jogging, Rose Twp, 30 July 2016 #2
Jul 30, 2016, 4:45 AM
Texts, per screenshots:
Ally – Lol why are you making artwork
Wes – I’m bored and she loves love
Ally – Lol : ) I love you
Wes – I love you too : )

bbm + red
Who is "she"?

 

[FlossyMay]

Who is "she"?

His cat I think.

 

[Deleted member 102539]

His cat I think.

Oh, I see. Didn't remember the cat at the moment. Thank you.

 

[bluesneakers]

Maybe she was getting calls that she did not want to take and wanted a bit of peace.

Maybe. She was going on a long run and wanted to run, not worry about who was texting or calling or demanding her attention. Nothing wrong with that.

Although I wonder what kind of reception she would get on that road?

 

[black_squirrel]

I see people saying “I love you “all of the time onFB but it does not mean they love them as in bf, gf. It seems to be a phrase used a lot that does not have much meaning

Sure, "I love you" can have many meanings. It all depends on the context.

But what does "I love you" mean in the context of two people who have had a long romantic relationship in the past and who broke up a couple of months ago? I think the person at the receiving end might think it was meant in a romantic way. For this reason, I wouldn't say it if for me the break-up was final.

This is why I think this exchange seems to indicate that Wes and Ally were still more than "just friends".

But ... it is possible, that Ally meant "I love you" just in a non-romantic way. In that case I can imagine that it could have been misinterpreted.

 

[MyBelle]

bbm + red
Who is "she"?

iirc, he was referring to a pet cat.

 

[MyBelle]

I see people saying “I love you “all of the time onFB but it does not mean they love them as in bf, gf. It seems to be a phrase used a lot that does not have much meaning

Saying it on social media and saying it in a personal text message are two completely different things. Wes has said they were considering moving back in together and finding a bigger apartment and I believe him. It's one thing to live an hour from work in the summer in Michigan and quite another to make the trek in winter.

 

[bluesneakers]

Saying it on social media and saying it in a personal text message are two completely different things. Wes has said they were considering moving back in together and finding a bigger apartment and I believe him. It's one thing to live an hour from work in the summer in Michigan and quite another to make the trek in winter.

He was considering getting back together. We don't know if she was making the same plans. And considering she WAS making plans to spend time with another man I have my doubts about the moving back in together. Maybe it was simply wishful thinking on Wes' part.

 

[MyBelle]

He was considering getting back together. We don't know if she was making the same plans. And considering she WAS making plans to spend time with another man I have my doubts about the moving back in together. Maybe it was simply wishful thinking on Wes' part.

I don't doubt Wes' version. I believe they decided to take a break. But I do not believe Ally intended to live with her parents and drive a long commute in the Michigan winters, which can be brutal with both snow and cold.

 

[Jennifer17]

I don't doubt Wes' version. I believe they decided to take a break. But I do not believe Ally intended to live with her parents and drive a long commute in the Michigan winters, which can be brutal with both snow and cold.

And she may not have intended to stay there all winter. She made good money and probably could rent her own apartment. She may have planned to take a job in Florida if the old flame and she got together again.

 

[SeesSeas]

Grief following a murder is always complex. Survivors don't "get over it."
Don't Be Frightened by Rage - healthy grief requires that these explosive emotions be expressed, not repressed.

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[Jax49]

Good thing we're allowed to decide for ourselves if we believe CM or not...

 

[chi-mama]

Are you responding to someone? I don't really understand your last few posts.

Perhaps some posts are in response to quotes that did not pick up in the reply.