How do you know the whole story has not come out yet ? You have said repeatedly that the husband doesn't talk , that he talks only to his lawyer.
So, the family has forgiven the way the police allegedly treated them, but you have not ?
You are not a family member, you did not witness the alleged mistreatment , you never met the wife , you were not at the funeral and yet, six months later you are still in an unforgiving *huff* over something you heard about second or third hand ?
What the heck are you all about ? And what is your purpose for coming on these boards. Don't tell me it is to search for answers ; you can get that straight from the horse's mouth.
What is your agenda, man ? I sense that this is nothing but a game to you , and you want your man to *win*.