JanetElaine
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Geez Louise Calus, you just killed the whole discussion.... LOL.calus_3 said:Well, lots to talk about here...
First, let me clarify the statements I made previously. If you CHOOSE to take a minimum wage job...because, for instance, you need a job that lets you work while the kids are in school--that is one thing. If you take a MW job to allow you to take care of a sick relative--that is another. If you have absolutely no other options in your life and are using a minimum wage job as a means to raise a family of four--as an adult--something is desperately wrong.
When I make these statements, I don't do so as a "hey, I am better than all of you", I make them as wearing my career counselor hat.
As for goals and objectives and style of each person, sure I understand that. I could make a LOT more money in my company if I were willing to travel...but I don't want to miss my family. It's all about choices. However, given that, if something in my life changed and I needed some significant income boost, a travelin I would go.
You mentioned in another post...about how I viewed your family...but then you deleted it. But since I saw it, I get to reply.
I would guess that you are a mother of three children....two boys and a girl. I would imagine that you are newly divorced (within three years). You probably are an outstanding mother and somewhat of a firecracker!I envision you as a redhead with green eyes. Am I close?
I had a little bit of a connection problem earlier and posted the same reply 4 or 5 times.... so i deleted them all and added a few lines to the original before reposting. The part about what you think my life is like is still in there, though. I can't see it right now while I'm replying, but I think it's the first post on page 3?
Anyway. You got the firecracker part right I guess (lol), and the eye color halfway - it's grey with green (weird really). Oh and of course the outstanding mother part.
I'm kind of debating on what other info to post... I'm paranoid about revealing too much online. Well, I have a husband and a daughter, and I am originally from Europe. After travelling the US and meeting hubby, that's where we lived for a while (Europe). I had my own business there, together with my father. Was a stay-at home-mom for a while when daughter was born, then about 5 years ago bought my half back from my dad and went to work again, while hubby moved back to the US to buy us a house and set up a business, since we decided to move here. Two years ago me and daughter moved over as well, and I went back to being a SAHM to make sure the transition for daughter would be flawless. Went to work a couple of months ago because I started feeling trapped, but I definitely only wanted to work during school hours. And here I am, making minimum wage on my first job in the US.
So are you really a dad who works too many hours and forgot his kid's names?
Okay and now how you killed the discussion.... I just wanted you to see that there are so many reasons someone could be working for minimum wage. You were all gung-ho about those people being losers, and never once mentioned the choices part. It was like you were stuck in your own little world, and I'm glad to see you're not.
I do agree with you about a lot of the things you said, but heck I had to be devil's advocate, didn't I... lol. I hate to see people get upset though, and well that still annoys me a little bit.... but... we didn't need this turning into one big smoochfest anyway... lmao!