I don't think any of those rumors have concrete proof, at least none that have been publicly confirmed. Maybe she could have been seeing someone ~questionable~ and wanted to keep it low-key, perhaps for her own reasons or because that person may have had some kind of status (not LE) in the community. It's difficult to know, especially because there's so many conflicting reports about how Sherill was as a person. I've seen her described as private, a homebody, "fierce" by her sister, and that she didn't do anything by half-measures.. I know she could have been all of those things, and as for the latter two, who knew her better than her own sister? If she was a private person, it wouldn't be too much of a stretch to believe she may have kept a relationship to herself, particularly if it was new. She reportedly had some 250+ hair clients, close friends, sister, father, and it seems like none of them were informed about a relationship. Either there wasn't one, or she had a good reason to keep it for herself.