Everyone should have the conversation with their children, husband, boyfriend girlfriend, white, black, whatever, that you do as the officer says and SHUT UP. I don't care if you think it's unfair or what, you can sort that out later but in the meantime, comply and shut up!!
My husband had a tiff with a TSA agent in the airport. It was luck they let him go, as I thought they were going to arrest him. I told him if he was ever to mouth off again and act like an, I 'd leave him behind, get on the flight without him, and he could handle the fallout by himself. Thankfully, that hasn't been an issue since.
Sorry, but I completely disagree with this. In general, I am polite and respectful to everyone when first encountering them. But if they act like an a$$hole for no reason — why should I show respect?
Cops aren’t the president. THEY WORK FOR US!!
I have encountered so many cops with a chip on their shoulder and it’s completely unacceptable. Let me give you an example - I have an expensive luxury sports car that draws attention from cops. Last year I got pulled over for holding my cell phone in my hand. Totally my fault. I was searching an address on Google maps. I took full responsibility and was polite to the cop. He leaned all the way into my car, got right in my face, and said, “you spent all this money on this thing, doesn’t it have Bluetooth?”
(I do realize that is completely a white person problem and I’m not in anyway trying to compare that to the problems others are experiencing. I’m just trying to make the point that sometimes police officers can be unnecessarily rude, and I should not be expected to be polite in return. I pay their salary. I did something wrong, I deserved the ticket, I was gracious about that. He should have been polite and gone on his merry way instead of choosing to be a d!ck.)
And yes, it has Bluetooth. But that’s literally not how Google maps works. Duh.